Should I Transfer?

<p>This is sort of a copy thread because I wasn't sure where to post this, so ignore if in the wrong place but... I just finished my freshmen year at Dartmouth and am on a medical leave due to depression and anxiety. After doing some reflection, I've figured that Dartmouth had a lot to do with the worsening on my mental state. Therefore, I am now considering transferring and would like some advice as to where to look into, given my stats and situation.</p>

<p>Stats and Dems:
UG GPA: 3.63
HS GPA: 4.0
ACT: 33
Lower-class biracial girl from Oklahoma. Very active with extracurricular's in high school, but not very active in college.</p>

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<p>Problems with Dartmouth:
- The community was WAY too intimate. Living all my life in a small town, I though I would be more comfortable in one but I thought wrong. I felt as though I always lacked privacy. I didn't like the feeling of not being able to go to the dining halls for food without running into and most likely being drawn into a conversation by 2-3 kids I know.
- The community as a whole had too many overly ambitious people. Everyone wanted to either make a lot of money, or save the world. There weren't enough people who were mostly going to college to learn skills to get a decent, fairly enjoyable job.
- Although they tried to be inclusive, the unbalanced ratio of rich kids to poor kids was rough. I felt out of place when I couldn't afford all the name brand clothes and felt a lot of negative feelings whenever I either went to a floor dinner at a restaurant (and just buckled down and paid) or whenever I had to decline.
- I chose Dartmouth partially because my best friend/ex went as well. This I am regretting somewhat. Although he is still my best friend, I feel that going to school with him put a damper on the way I was supposed to acclimate to college by greatly interfering with my social balance. He's very extroverted, and I'm introverted, and with the new constant available access to each other (we lived 30 mins apart back home) we ended up hanging out WAY more than we did in high school, which threw me off.
- Dartmouth is too unnecessarily hard. As a rule of thumb, I like practical learning and hate most things theoretical or subjective. Too many of Dartmouth's courses fell among the latter two.
- Too many small, intimate classes with emphasis on group participation and active interaction. I don't like feeling obligated to get to know my classmates beyond the level of vague acquaintances.
- Doesn't offer Nursing (which I am now highly considering for a major)</p>

<p>Things I liked:
- Great teachers. I felt like they cared and were very supportive.
- Great opportunities, lots of variety in classes, which is good for my many interests.
- I liked the nature, I love being in a place where I can be reasonably close to a good sunrise and hear the song birds over a cup of coffee in the morning.
- Accepting, tolerant student body (or at least compared to Oklahoma it is)</p>

<p>Things I'm looking for in a potential school to transfer to:
-The things I liked about Dartmouth
- I want to avoid the more conservative schools like many of the ones in Oklahoma and the South
- I want to avoid small schools if it means they don't offer Nursing (but I don't want a school that specializes only in nursing either, as I have many interests)
- I've learned I don't mind living in cities, and actually kind of like it, but I don't want to live in a huge city( <700,000 is preferred)
- Being from the South, manners, politeness, courtesy, and friendliness are very important to me in a way, however, I like a place with people that aren't socially pushy. Like if we're neighbors, I'll wave to you and do small favors for you, but I'm not going to invite you to a event or barbecue every weekend unless we've known each other for a WHILE (and even then, like once every two months). Basically, I like people who hold doors open, wave, and say please and thank you, but who won't ask to hang out after talking to you for just a couple of hours.
- Although snow is a pain, I can handle it. I would prefer if it didn't stick around all winter though. I am also not a big fan of the heat (I deal better with cold than hot weather)
- I want a school that's homebody friendly, preferably with plenty of single dorms or apartment options.
- I want a somewhat less academically intense school and want a community with more like minded individuals (I'm going to college predominately to get a job, smart, but not overly 'intellectual' people)
- Socioeconomic diversity
- A good Nursing Program is a must.</p>

<p>Other considerations
- As long as my scholarship (Gates) holds true, cost isn't really a determining factor.
- I have interests in Medicine, Art (Visual, Music, Dancing, pretty much all art), Computers, Psychology, Japanese, and Video Games and would prefer places that have classes or at least clubs to pursue these interests.
- Also a school with good mental health service access based on precedent.
- I don't care about prestige, but I want good programs that will prepare me for graduate school if I decide someday to go.
- I want to avoid Oklahoma.
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<p>Basically, I looking for some schools to consider and trying to decide if transferring is a good option, or if anyone has advice on how to make my college experience at Dartmouth manageable (although being forced to do postbac nursing isn't very appealing financially). I don't want to transfer just to end up in the same boat again, it's too taxing and expensive, but I think a change of venue might be beneficial. Currently, University of Washington Seattle is all that is on my list, and I want to find other schools I should consider along with it. Any advice is greatly appreciated! </p>

<p>I can’t tell you whether or not you should transfer, but I wanted to give input based-up what I experienced at my school, George Washington University. I imagine most others will do the same as most of us can only tell you about our own experience. Based upon what you’re looking for, though, I think GW has a lot of things you’re looking for (plus it’s awesome :wink: )</p>

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<li><p>I want to avoid the more conservative schools like many of the ones in Oklahoma and the South
*GW has a great mix of conservative and liberal. If anything, it’s more liberal-leaning like most universities.</p></li>
<li><p>I want to avoid small schools if it means they don’t offer Nursing (but I don’t want a school that specializes only in nursing either, as I have many interests)
*GW has an undergrad population of about 10,000 I believe. This isn’t as large as big state schools and it’s definitely not “small”</p></li>
<li><p>I’ve learned I don’t mind living in cities, and actually kind of like it, but I don’t want to live in a huge city( <700,000 is preferred)
*D.C. has a population of under 700,000 and the main campus is down-town Foggy Bottom, 6 blocks from the White House, a few blocks from the Watergate Hotel and Kennedy Center for performing arts, and 4 block from the Lincoln Memorial and other cool things on the Mall. Overall, a very centralized location with great access to the rest of the city. It’s THE place to go to school if you like cities :)</p></li>
<li><p>Being from the South, manners, politeness, courtesy, and friendliness are very important to me in a way, however, I like a place with people that aren’t socially pushy. Like if we’re neighbors, I’ll wave to you and do small favors for you, but I’m not going to invite you to a event or barbecue every weekend unless we’ve known each other for a WHILE (and even then, like once every two months). Basically, I like people who hold doors open, wave, and say please and thank you, but who won’t ask to hang out after talking to you for just a couple of hours.
*This one is a little harder to pin for GW, as you’ll find a mix. In my experience, freshmen are typically very open and friendly because everyone is trying to make friends. After freshman year, you’ll have folks keep doors open for you, but many will either be too busy to strike-up a chat or have their nose buried in their iPhone. Again, it also depends on which dorm you’re living in. Lots of variables…</p></li>
<li><p>Although snow is a pain, I can handle it. I would prefer if it didn’t stick around all winter though. I am also not a big fan of the heat (I deal better with cold than hot weather)
*D.C. only gets a few snow falls in the winter and it sticks around for only a few days. It can get chilly and breezy, however. As far as heat, it’s usually only hot the first few weeks of the fall semester. September can still be 80-90 degrees, but it gets really nice after that and will stay relatively warm until the 1st of December. Even at the end of spring semester, you’ll only have temps up to 80 or so.</p></li>
<li><p>I want a school that’s homebody friendly, preferably with plenty of single dorms or apartment options.
*I think there’s only two dorms on campus that are singles, but competition for them is pretty low, I believe, since most students want to room with others. Apartment-style are very easy to come by as juniors and seniors, and most of these dorms are 10 years old or new. GW has some really great dorms that have led to GW being voted as having “dorms like palaces” or something like that by the Princeton Review.</p></li>
<li><p>I want a somewhat less academically intense school and want a community with more like minded individuals (I’m going to college predominately to get a job, smart, but not overly ‘intellectual’ people)
*This will depend a lot on your area of study. There are A LOT of driven people at GW, but most of them are driven to get internships on Capital Hill or other prestigious firms in the city. I was in the Columbian College of Arts and Sciences (majored in Physics) and it was a very balanced group of high- and average-achievers.</p></li>
<li><p>Socioeconomic diversity
*GW is incredibly diverse. There’s a large group of rich kids, but there are a lot of international students, middle class, military veterans such as myself, and a somewhat smaller percentage of students from lower-income families.</p></li>
<li><p>A good Nursing Program is a must.
*GW’s nursing program is relatively new- I think it started in 2011 when I graduated. However, GW has a hospital on campus and its own medical school, so there is a pretty large focus on public health.</p></li>
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<p>Other considerations

  • As long as my scholarship (Gates) holds true, cost isn’t really a determining factor.
    *Good, because it’s not the cheapest school, lol. I think in total GW is about $55K a year, but you get locked-into your tuition rate for 10 years after you start. </p>

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<li><p>I have interests in Medicine, Art (Visual, Music, Dancing, pretty much all art), Computers, Psychology, Japanese, and Video Games and would prefer places that have classes or at least clubs to pursue these interests.
*Lot’s of great clubs on campus!</p></li>
<li><p>Also a school with good mental health service access based on precedent.
*GW has had a HUGE push this last year on student mental health after an unfortunate string of suicides in a particular freshman dorm (3 in a month, I believe). They had a good program before the push, I thought, but the school wanted to do even more for their students. I’m pretty sure that counseling is also free for students, but you’d have to double-check that.</p></li>
<li><p>I don’t care about prestige, but I want good programs that will prepare me for graduate school if I decide someday to go.
*GW definitely offers this, as well</p></li>
<li><p>I want to avoid Oklahoma.
*This, too :)</p></li>
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<p>Thanks for the enthusiastic response! I’ll definitely be considering GW now as well! How competitive is it to transfer there given my dems?</p>

<p>I think so, but the best way to find out is to apply. Out a lot of thought/heart into your essay and you should be golden! Really explain why GW provides something you can’t get elsewhere, too. </p>

<p>Good luck!</p>