<p>First post, been on the site for a while though and I'm interested in hearing some opinions on this situation. I left College early, after less than a month, during my freshman year. Didn't like the school, etc. I learned a lot about life since then and applied to another school, my first choice, and got accepted. One thing about me in college, I asked out a different girl everyday; two girls in the same class (on different days of course...i think), girl in my hall, went on a "date" with another girl in my hall, etc. One of the things I learned was to be patient with love and rather allow it to happen since the best girls previously in my life usually were girls who I hung out with first rather than girls I asked out immediately. I said I'd no longer chase, I'd rather live my life, create art, and see what happens with my relationships. Losing my virginity before I turned 19 was a goal (as you can see by my track record for asking out women) but after leaving college, I decided having sex isn't a contest and I'd rather wait until college to start relationships again. Until today, when this girl, who works at a supermarket, caught my eye. She noticed me looking at her but avoided looking back until I left and she looked at me for quite a bit, meaning there's a great possibility she's interested. A family member was there at the time so it would of been a bit awkward to ask her out. Ironically, I have $15 bucks, which means I could buy condoms. The market is a bit far so I'd have to walk but who here thinks I should ask this girl out and have a short, end of the summer fling (sex). But remember, I also said I would no longer chase! So, who here thinks I should wait until College, instead of going on a potentially wild goose chase? Both sides have advantages, so I could go either way.</p>
<p>cool story bro</p>
<p>too long huge block of text. stopped at “went on a ‘date’ with girl everyday.”</p>
<p>skimmed and saw ‘losing virginity before 19’, you naughty boy, you.</p>
<p>tl;dr
also, super cool story bro</p>
<p>Just do it. (:</p>
<p>i read that because i thought it would be interesting… but basically it’s just poll on whether you should ask her out or not. i say go for it, i mean what kind of girl wouldn’t go for a guy with $15?</p>
<p>i say get atter</p>
<p>I think it is interesting though because you have to look at what I’m really asking. On the surface, you see either me asking her out or not, but the dilemma is what each choice represents. If I ask her out, although I’m taking back my promise of not chasing, but If we do hook up and have sex, I would in a sense be less likely to continue chasing in college since I’ve already had it. But by not asking and waiting, that’s going longer without sex and potentially ending right where I started in the first place, once the temptation is back while being around that many women. I’ll make my own decision but I’m interested in what other people might say about this.</p>
<p>Just curious… how many of the above are guys?
I think you should just wait.</p>
<p>I’m a girl, bro.</p>
<p>Just to add to what I wrote: I’d be less inclined to want to be with a guy who likes to run around and is desperate for sex than with a guy who’s willing to wait.</p>
<p>Who’s to say that she’s going to have sex with you even if you did ask her out? If you want to try to smash, then try to smash. It’s not that big of a decision. Plus from the way you tell it, she wasn’t even that fly. Don’t fret unless this chick is at least a 9.</p>
<p>Well I think sex is something to do with someone you love.</p>
<p>However, if you just want some feel good action, and experience, then go for it (if she even would?).</p>
<p>Its a personal preference thing.</p>
<p>Yo 3weeks that is good, dont listen to these people tellin you to just wait GET AFTER IT jus dont come off as desperate, walk into that supermarket again after a couple days [ hopefully she still workin ] and you know just buy whatever… small talk is key man it aint hard just say somethin simple DONT THINK TOO HARD i hate how people on this forum and everywhere think theres some kinda formula for talkin to girls they are humans too they like to talk… at least most of them lol but im tellin you be confident [ that is key ] even though inside you will be nervous you just gota do ya best not to show it… pretend as if you wre talkin to a dude lol be like “you seem tired how longs your shift?” etcccccc etc, ask for her name tell her yours shake her hand etc and make it short, just say "well i gota run but if you dont mind we should go out to get some coffee or something sometime… CAN I HAVE YA NUMBA. =) <- with a smile</p>
<p>and malik you know he still gota put in some work Ha ha she probably not a hoe or nothin … and if hes jus lookin to mess around she doesnt have to be a 9 Whatttt lol [ now some kids gona say something like you must have low standards… sike ] but i mean really if you just lookin to have fun bein single then 7 and up is fine wit me lol</p>
<p>ITS A WRAP !!!</p>
<p>You need a blog.</p>
<p>Should you?</p>
<p>I like how it’s assumed this girl even wants to have sex with you.</p>
<p>Who’s to say he needs her consent? There are other ways…</p>
<p>hey there cowboy</p>
<p>Dude, update this and tell us how it all went down if you ever do it.</p>
<p>I’ve tried similar things - so far I’m 1 for 5.</p>