<p>I could have started a topic like this only it would have been titled “Should we take D’s boyfriend (of 6 months) to help her move into College Dorm”? Her college is about an hour’s drive from our house and my D has invited her BF and I feel a little like OP. Although in the case of OP’s questions about her son’s graduation and having the GF of two years attend I think it would be odder if the GF didn’t go. </p>
<p>But where I relate is that this is our good-bye to our baby (youngest of four) and a day we have all been dreading/looking forward to for a long time. I really thought it should be just H,D and me. But the thing is my D really wants her bf to come and since it’s her day we just said okay.</p>