<p>I was also curious what emerald was referring to, so I googled the user name I chose to see if that provided any insight on the “outside information.” it looks like someone on a wedding website has been posting with the same username, so I assume that’s the outside information. If it makes any difference, I was here under a different name 5-6 years ago when DS was applying to colleges, and remembered all of the support I received then and what a great community it was ad decided to come back to ask this question, but couldn’t remember my login. I figured I wouldn’t forget initials and a wedding date so there you go. I doubt I’m the only person in the world with my initials or the only person who sees significance in August, 1985. Any other doubts I can put to rest, emerald?</p>