<p>My D is now choosing between Berkeley and Princeton. The former is cheaper and closer to home. And, supposedly, has a great linguistics program which she is interested in. And not bad music program, as we have heard. (She is music and languages ... well, humanities person).The latter is ... well, Ivy, prestigious, East Coast, gorgeous campus, exptremely bright students, etc. Very tempting.;)</p>
<p>One of our big concerns in comparing both options is: how hard is it on students in terms of competetiveness, workload, effort for the grade in view of those grading curve/grade deflation policies? In other words, will the bright student be able to achieve the grades decent enough to get into good grad schools without sacrifising her health and sanity?</p>
<p>Her academic workload at high school has been insane - not so much of AP classes as the workload in each of them. And, knowing how competitive the admission proccess is nowadays (as well as being naturally crazyly perfectionistic) she always did her best to get all A's (and did get them) as well as spent more time on her ECs than it was good for her well-being (yes, she enjoyed most of those activities, but never knew when to stop). All that noticeably affected her health. </p>
<p>It's clear now that she can't continue the same lifestyle in college. We urge her to include the fair amount of fitness classes into her schedule and, generally, as it seems there is no such a need to get ALL A's in college as it was in h/s (and no need to mount so many ECs - just a few to enjoy should be enough?), try and have more of sleep, fresh air and physical activities.</p>
<p>But DD is afraid of not being able to do that as "everybody will be so smart and the schools' policies will make us compete for the good grades". </p>
<p>So, I wonder:</p>
<p>a)how hard is it to get an "A" for humanities classes in Princeton? Approximately, on average, how many hours of work weekly is expected for an "A" in each class?</p>
<p>b)The same for "B's": how hard and how much ... and will getting "B's" compromise the student's chances for good grad schools?</p>
<p>c)What do Princeton students do to both maintain their grades AND health/physical shape/sanity?</p>
<p>I'm going to ask the same questions on Berkeley page. ;)</p>