<p>My family is extremely atypical.</p>
<p>My dad asked me what I wanted to do in college once, and I said I'd run away to Europe and live the life of a Bohemian vagabond.
Dad: "How're you gon' feed yourself?"
Me: "Draw? Paint? What do Bohemian vagabonds do?"
The next day, he picked me up from school. In a bag were charcoal pencils, magic markers, gel pens.
Dad: "Practice."</p>
<p>My dad is so awesome like that. He's so Americanized though, even though he was an emigrant from Vietnam.</p>
<p>No one would ever pick the four of my family and put us together. My younger brother is southern to the core (he has a country accent, loves Republicanism, devout to the military and JROTC and everything attached to it). My dad looks like a prep, loves southern food and country music, trucker hats, and NSYNC. My mom is a jazz and soul queen, shopaholic, acts/looks like she came straight out of New York. Me, I'm pure Californian, though I wish I was English.</p>
<p>I never really understood "Asian pressure." I don't really understand completely American non-pressure either.</p>
<p>My parents never pushed me to do well. They said it was important, but never prodded or pushed. We're a pretty ambitious bunch.</p>
<p>To be honest, I think my parents actually neglect to give any imput into what I WANT to do. They do support my brother and me, however. For example, my life and breath is television productions, journalism, broadcasting, media, et al.</p>
<p>My parents have a very skewed sense of "fairness." They won't let me go to the mall the last weekend, but they let my little shy fourteen-year old brother go to some chick's 18 year old pool party with varsity football players.</p>
<p>They won't let me go visit colleges on my own, but they sent me packing with my friends to party in Ireland on St. Patty's Day.</p>
<p>My mom is pretty capricious, to say the least. Everything that goes is on her whim.</p>
<p>Yeah, I tend to ramble and get long-winded. But, I just had to say, that Asian pressure stuff... it's just SOME Asian parents.</p>