I think you are oversimplifying and overstating my post.
I am in no way “dismissing” the OP’s son’s high school record, including both his academics and his ECs. As the parent of a recruited athlete, I am most certainly not dismissing them because they are sports. Nor am I totally dismissing his chances of admission at a top school. I am merely pointing out that what makes ECs truly unique is not the amorphous, universal character traits of every student who participates in an EC. All EC’s can be spun to promote character, focus, and teamwork on a college application.
Where I believe students render themselves exceptionally unique through ECs, is when their EC marks an endeavor that will translate directly into college. If Student A is in the robotics club, but has no intention of pursuing this field in college, while Student B is the editor of the school newspaper and intends to pursue journalism in college, how can you say that, all other things being equal, Student B is not, in most cases, more attractive?
Parents are investing upwards of $250k for an undergraduate education. These kids are diced, spliced, and refined by every professional advisor, guidance counselor, parent and relative who guides them through this process. While there are no hard statistics in this area (and perhaps you and I must simply agree to disagree), I cannot fathom in today’s world of college applications, that top students are not well aware of “creating a vision” or presenting themselves as unique, with special gifts to offer their top choices. It is just not reasonable to assume such ignorance.
There will almost always be exceptions. While you may well have kids who defied the odds, I seriously doubt this represents the norm. I also doubt, given their statistics, that they would be dismissed on this thread. Kudos to those who know how and effectively communicate the strengths inherent in their daily activities and how those translate into a desirable campus addition.
Getting back to the OP’s original question, my sense is that she is concerned that having solely sports as her son’s ECs is somehow lesser than other ECs. I believe I made it clear that I do not believe this is the case. Where I see a weakness relating to her son’s ECs is NOT that they are sports, but rather that he does not intend to pursue them in college.