<p>Congratulations on some excellent choices. </p>
<p>I’m personally familiar with Stanford and Haverford. Without a doubt Stanford has the large budgets; however, that in itself does not correlate to a benefit to you so you will look well beyond that. For example, the remarkable budget that Stanford has for its sports teams may not be all that relevant to you. Stanford throws plenty of money at academic programs as well. However, focus on your interests and assess whether these overlap with the money and programs/opportunities offered by the school. Separately, and of equal if not greater importance, is where are you going to find the mentor, the professor that will take you under his/her wing, go to bat for you, introduce you to programs/internships, and help get you into those. On this latter point, it’s not just your own academic prowess that gets you there, you need to look to your qualities to ensure that you will be recognized by the professor. You also will need to look at the professors themselves, are they at the institution for their personal gain and the students are an incidental part of that equation. If so, your personality, beyond the academics, will have to be one that goes out, shakes the bushes and hunts down the opportunity. </p>
<p>With that as a backdrop, I would suggest that you start with some self-reflection: What environment, both with respect to socially and academic interests, do you believe/feel you will excel in. Given the caliber of each school, your answer to this question will help you better assess which school will be better for you.</p>
<p>After that, you should look at what environment do you want. Do you want the large forum Saturday football game. Are you ok with the large forum lecture environment. </p>
<p>Both Stanford and Haverford are exceptional and you can’t go wrong with either. At this point, it boils down to style and where you believe you will thrive because of your interests, your personality, what you consider important, etc. For example, if you could only buy one car, and your choice was a 2 seat porsche or a 4 seat porsche sedan, you’re not going to go wrong with either, but your analysis will inevitably start with, given you’re personality and other characteristics, the one you choose will be the one that ultimately you believe you’ll enjoy the most. Good luck and remember, once you choose, no regrets or what ifs, throw yourself at the place you selected.</p>