<p>OP- Trust your heart. Call her, see what happens, the worst case scenario is she isn’t interested.</p>
<p>Don’t overthink all the logistics- those can always be worked out if you two fall madly in love. Sounds like you would regret missing this opportunity to reconnect. You don’t want to be a greying, balding 55 year old wondering if you married the right person.</p>
<p>and if you truly feel something for her, you don’t necessarily need to ‘get over’ her. you just have to be sensible and understand how both of you are feeling, what your current priorities are, what you’re willing to go through etc. basically, just talk about it.</p>
<p>The coffee idea sounds good. I need to know she’s into me first, but it’s hard to tell. Girls are really good at hiding how they really feel lol.</p>
<p>Well, just ask her casually. Something like, “Hey, I haven’t talked to you in so long! Wanna get coffee sometime and catch up?” (or something along those lines…I guess you did technically “talk” at the reunion). Then depending on how that goes, you could or could not try to hang out again. If things do work out and you do hang out again, you’ll soon be able to tell how she feels - as a friend or otherwise.</p>
<p>We went out for coffee yesterday but she said no to starting a relationship (for all the reasons i’d predicted) :(.</p>
<p>Damn… sorry man.</p>
<p>I am sorry to hear that. Take care okay.</p>