<p>These past few days I have visited Duke. I am choosing between there and Tufts. Some of you may have seen my last post. To recap:</p>
<p>I was accepted Tufts RD and enrolled. I was very excited to go, met a lot of cool people. Then I got a phone call from Duke saying that I was admitted off the waitlist. I was really excited but I had never been there, so I eventually got to plan my trip, visited, and fell in love with the campus, facilities, everything. I didn't get to talk to that many people because it's already the summer, but ones I did I liked.</p>
<p>Here are my feelings on both schools.</p>
<p>Tufts
Was initially my third or fourth choice behind Cornell and Penn. Didn't get into those two and fell in love with the school. The campus was very nice (not my ideal campus, but I like it all the same) and I really, really enjoyed the people I met there. Some were just okay, but some I really enjoyed talking to. However, I have only met these people once, a few times, or never so it's very hard to base it off of isolated quick meetings. I feel that perhaps I may fit here better socially. Another really great thing about tufts was the boston area, and it's location in the north (half as far away from home, weather that I am used to, big city life, etc) I was very excited to attend and looking forward to meet all of the people i had talked with.</p>
<p>Duke</p>
<h2>Was the other one either 3rd or 4th choice. On my visit I felt like I was touring my dream school, and I was already accepted! I could not believe how gorgeous the campus looked, and not just the scenery and the buildings, but the classrooms and the dining areas just looked spectacular. It really looked like a paradise to me, though it was very hot and I will have to get used to that if I attend. (Hopefully only hot in the beginning and ending months) I have been able to talk with duke kids and while I like some, I have not made the same type of connections with them a with kids I met at tufts, but of course it's really hard to consider this when the majority of the interaction between all of these kids has been online. I did also percieve some students to be a bit condescending and conceeded in the facebook groups, but that was only a few isolated comments, and i think that I am having a harder time warming up to duke because I talked to so many people going to tufts, and it felt weird starting over. Plus, I have not talked to them nearly as long.</h2>
<p>If I do a school by school comparison Duke seems to win out. It's got the better engineering program, a gorgeous campus and great facilities, D1 sports, a place I've dreamed of attending, and even a prestige factor (this is at the bottom of the list, of course, but still of note) I really do feel that it would be a great place for me if i am able to find a niche of people I enjoy. I don't think I should worry about that despite enjoying the kids in tufts facebook group better because, after all, it's online.</p>
<p>I still feel like part of my heart is still pulling towards tufts, but I think that may be falsely encouraged by these friendships I have made and not real reason to chose a school. For some reason, though, I really feel like these kids understand me. However, I should be choosing the best fit for me, and the idea of Duke really fits that. That being said, my biggest concern is the fitting in the social scene at Duke, and the possibility of not liking the student body. There are so many people going to Duke so it really seems my worries are unecessary. So to recap</p>
<p>Duke
Great programs for what I want to do (Engineering, Public Policy)
More beautiful campus/facilities
More "Dream School" like
Hotter, Southern Weather (I'm from the north)
Worse Surrounding area
Haven't made as many social connections,
I feel as this is the more logical choice and a dream come true.</p>
<p>Tufts
Great, but lesser engineering program for what i may want to do (Engineering, IR is great though)
Great campus/facilities, but not as impressive
First Love School
Made great, but brief/mostly internet social connections
Great surrounding area of Boston
Northern Climate Atmosphere
This feels more like the safer choice and the one that my heart is still with, to a point.</p>
<p>This is the hardest decision of my life. I am putting this on here for my own considerations/thoughts but would love any input. Thank you very much if you read the majority/all of this.</p>