<p>I got accepted into Cortland Albany and University at Buffalo. I haven't decided on a major yet but it will probably be something like accounting or computer science (which Cortland doesn't offer). I keep hearing how everyone hates it at albany and that it has a terrible reputation. I also hear that UB is one of the better SUNY schools. So why am I asking this question? Because UB is about 8 hours away and Albany is only 2 hours away. So is UB worth the extra distance? I am completely fine with being that far away but my parents will not be thrilled about it. So if you could give me any advice than I'd really appreciate it. Thank You! </p>
<p>Buffalo has an airport and, I believe, an Amtrak station, but, true, it would be a little too far for quick weekend visits. If you feel strongly about the school, I would say it’s worth it – you’ll have plenty of breaks to go home or for your parents to visit. I’m also in a similar position with a D who is mulling choices, and one of them is about that far away. As a parent I can say it would disappoint me a little, but the choice is hers and we’d be fine no matter what. So I would learn what I can about the two (go to admitted students days if you can) and choose based on the school. </p>
<p>Do you expect to see your parents every weekend? Do you need to see them very often?
Many students at non-commuter/non-suitcase schools only see their parents a couple times per semester. They’re too busy with classes, activities, friends, etc., creating a life on their own and starting on developing an adult’s autonomy.
At age 18 it may be good for you (and your parents) to be away from each other, “distance makes the heart grow fonder” etc…But ymmv, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to see your parents a lot. If you’d be fine but only your parents would find it hard: it’s part of life. They sorta expect it. That’s what growing up is about - and, for parents, “letting go”.
SUNY Buffalo is an excellent school so academically yes it’s worth the extra distance. </p>
<p>I don’t think Albany has <em>that</em> terrible of a reputation. It used to be better in the past, as far as SUNYs, but it’s still not a bad school. The biggest complaints I’ve heard about it is ugly campus, too big, party school. Those things might not bother you at all. I definitely understand parents not wanting to be so far away. Also it might not seem like a big deal to you now but you might dislike in the future having to sit in a car for 8 hours or take a plane whenever you want to come home. Buffalo definitely has a fine rep though.</p>
<p>Albany was much better when a lot of my friends went many, many moons ago. It was the school for business. Although I did not grow up in the area I now live an hour away from the campus in a bordering state. I need to go to Albany quite often… how do it put this…don’t want offend anyone… but its a dreary city, an ugly campus and is waning in reputation. No way would my daughters even apply to any of the schools in Albany. What is that expression? YOLO! Go to Buffalo. </p>
<p>I would suggest visiting both campuses. Can you arrange to do an overnight at each? I have a friend whose daughter goes to Albany (in a STEM major, I think) and she loves it. The campus does seem to be spread out, but her high school was small, so she likes that. Take a look at the classes both schools offer and try to sit in on a couple if you can. </p>