<p>As some of you know, I've had trouble in the past talking to my roommate. I promised myself I wouldn't talk to him until school was started, because it was making me angry with his vague responses. HOWEVER, now I have run into some issues that I NEED to talk to him about, these are:
[ol][<em>]Only one of the beds have a wall next to it (the only has this huge window). I have some posters I want to hang up, so I'll need the bed with the wall, but at the same time I would be taking up all the majority of the space for hanging stuff.
[</em>]What big items we are bringing. He already stated he wanted us to bring two different refrigerators. I also brought a nightstand for myself (since there is only one in the room). I just want to make sure he isn't bringing anything big and that I'll actually be able to fit my nightstand. [/ol]</p>
<p>So how do I bring these two issues up without bugging him or being annoying or rude? Any advice would help.</p>
<p>dude. you’re making a big deal out of nothing whatsoever. chill…two things:</p>
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<li><p>how do you know he doesnt have things he wants to hang up as well? </p></li>
<li><p>bring everything you think you need and then when you get there you’ll see what you truly need.</p></li>
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<p>this way. everything can be resolved once you get there. you’re making this way bigger than necessary.</p>
<p>If push comes to shove and you feel like you absolutely need to contact him, just do it. you can’t help it if he thinks you’re annoying or rude.</p>
<p>We aren’t going to be moving in at the exact same time. If I were to come in before him and hang up all my stuff that would be really rude, esp since, as you said, I don’t know if he doesn’t have anything he wants to hang up as well. Also thanks for the advice about how to bring up the subject -_-</p>
<p>Wait to hang things up. The first thing you don’t want to do is make a bad impression. It’s much easier to start on a clean slate and work your way to being civil or friends than it is to make a bad impression and then try to resolve your issues between each other. </p>
<p>And if you’re nice about it, I don’t see a problem with just talking to him. Keep it brief and on point. </p>
<p>Any chance you can rearrange the furniture, so you each have a little wall space?</p>
<p>Yeah there is a way to rearrange the furniture so that we both have all space… but idk honestly how that would look or work out. I need to actually physically see it. Hmm…that might work out…hmm… thakns for the idea though.</p>