<p>We have lived with this dilemma on a personal level. Our county has very good public high schools, each with its own specialty center, which probably have about a 20-40 percent acceptance rate; center subject matter does somewhat self-select the applicants (Humanities, Math &Science, Arts, Engineering, Info Tech, IB, Foreign Language Immersion, etc). We also participate in a regional magnet school with an acceptance rate from our particular county of 8-10% from a pool that needs to meet application qualifications to even allow application.</p>
<p>Our four children all attended our county's IB middle school (basically the county's magnet school at the middle school level). Our sons still were not really challenged, our daughters did have to do some work to get their A's (but they are more social than the boys). Both boys were admitted to all of the high schools they applied and went to the magnet school. Both girls were waitlisted there but accepted elsewhere.</p>
<p>BOTTOM LINE FOR US: Boys really needed the challenges offered by the course selection, teachers, and peers of the magnet school. We were not even thinking about college when S1 made his choice, except that we had been told that the IB program was more recognized by colleges than the magnet program (not true). We decided that from what we had seen of the options as well as the higher level of classes offered, eight languages offered, etc., he would be better prepared for whatever college he wound up at if he attended the magnet school. Turned out to be soooo true. Their quest for learning has been nurtured and encouraged by both teachers and peers. S1 is at a top school known for its grade deflation, taking more classes than required at 2-3 levels above his class year and doing extremely well. S2 will know his choices in a few weeks.</p>
<p>That being said, our sons were/are at the very top of their class at the magnet school, had nat'l/int'l awards, perfect/near perfect scores,etc. Had daughters gone to this same school, they would not have been at the top of their class like their brothers, their stress level would be sky high, and they would be in a very precarious position to garner an acceptance to our top state schools all because of the caliber of the student body at this magnet. Instead, D1 is at the top of her class, has time to relax with her friends; will never do as well as her brothers on AP or standardized tests due to the claiber of teachers, peers, and her own abilities. But compared to her classmates, she will have an excellent shot at very good schools, schools she wouldn't have a chance at if she had attended the magnet school. The price for this is that she will not be as well prepared and she will have to work harder in college once she gets there. </p>
<p>All in all, it's a trade off. For us, it worked out well in all cases. But a few years ago the student newspaper at the magnet school addressed this very issue highlighting the frustration of students who did not get in to our state's top two very well respected public universities who probably would have been the valedictorians / salutatorians of their home schools had they chosen to go that route and easily gotten in to these schools. It was a tough pill for them to swallow after four years of very hard work. </p>
<p>I think it all depends on the student and what's important to them. It's much easier to think a magnet school is a fantastic thing when your child is one of the few doing superbly well as opposed to one stuck in the middle of the pack seeing his/her college dreams fading and stressing out all the time.</p>
<p>Sorry for the long post!</p>