I think I might have a different expectation about the level of involvement of the institution in my children’s lives. Yes, they lived/live on campus, but I don’t see the institution as responsible for their personal well being. Their job is to provide a safe environment that is conducive to learning, to make services available to help when there are issues, and maybe even to encourage use of those services. I don’t expect that they’re checking up on my kid or wanting to play detective. And yes, I did have one with a pretty big issue that emerged during the college years.