thinking about moving out

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<p>I'm considering withdrawing from this frat since i dont really 'fit in' with the brothers there. i admit, alot of the prob is me as i'm a little weird. also, the guys at the house are pretty nice and not ***holes. but i wouldnt say any of them are close like 'brothers'</p>

<p>if i move out, i would move to the co-ops, so i'll still have a social scene (unless everyone has all their cliques by now). also, i'll get to meet girls (in our socially dead frat, we HARDLY ever meet girls). i'm running out of opportunities to meet girls since i'm almsot done with school and have never had a gf. i cant meet girls elsewhere since im too busy for clubs and in my classes are all guys</p>

<p>probably the only reason for me to stay at the frat house is that i have a nice roommate. i've had roommate problems before so i'm a little concerned</p>

<p>i'll graduate probably around next winter and am currently very busy with classes and applying for internships</p>

<p>i stayed in the frat during rush mostly since at the time i didnt know many people at school. i also was too lazy to go look for a place to live the following year</p>

<p>bottom line: i dont fit in with the guys but i have a nice roommate and i dont want to have severe roomate problems if i move out. but i want to meet girls. what should i do?</p>

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<p>i really need some advice. i dont have much time to decide</p>

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<p>Well if you really think you can get a girlfriend, then move out. If not then you can still move out and try, but risk losing a good roommate.</p>

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<p>you can get a girlfriend after college too</p>

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<p>Since you don't fit in with the guys Move Out. Use what little extra time you have to be social and meet girls! College is the best opportunity you have to meet like-minded single girls. Don't waste it over a decent roommate!
Have you considered getting a single/apartment style dorms/ townhouse apartment ect? Even if those options are unavailable I would definitely risk the roommate situation. You're missing out!</p>

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<p>i currently want a gf, but i doubt i can considering that i'm an engineering nerd. but i guess its worth the try</p>

<p>thus me and most single college girls are NOT like minded</p>

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<p>If you haven't had a girlfriend yet, withdrawing from the frat and getting into this co-op thing probably won't do much to help you in that department.</p>

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<p>a frat that doesn't get girls?</p>

<p>GTFO</p>

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<p>"you can get a girlfriend after college too"</p>

<p>what are the odds of that if i've never had a gf? isnt it much easier to get one during college?</p>

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<p>Again, I didn't say most. I said college was the best opportunity you have to meet like-minded girls. After entering the workforce it becomes even more difficult.
I mean really, a socially dead frat where you are considering staying merely cause the roommate isn't from hell? Waste of time and money.</p>

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<p>well i have until tomorrow to decide</p>

<p>i'd appreciate any last second input</p>

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<p>As I said, if you think you can get one, then do it. If you have had good shots before, then do it. You can do anything! Believe it!</p>

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<p>I'm an engineering nerd and I've got an awesome girlfriend who is the polar opposite of me (artsy, english major). We sort of make up for each other's differences. </p>

<p>But yeah, girls that like engineering nerds are out there. They aren't necessarily like-mided, but it doesn't matter if they're right-minded.</p>

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<p>thats good to hear futon</p>