<p>I want to get a house off campus cuz it is way cheaper. However, my girlfriend who I am very much in love with is shakey about me doing this because she feels it is just weird that i live with two girls and she is afraid that one of them will start to like me. I have no other intention to move in with these girls than to have cheaper rent and a kitchen because cafateria food stinks. I just wanted to hear what you guys think?</p>
<p>girls get jealous, so i think you better listen to your gf. No matter how much you claim to love your gf, very few men can resist beautiful girls flirting. Ha, but if those other girls are ugly, i don't see a reason not to move in. It might actually strengthen your bond with gf.</p>
<p>People I ask say the girls are attractive although I dont see it. I am very stubborn, there is no temptation for me, also I dont drink so my judgement would not be impaired, and my girl friend would be like 40 minutes away and I plan for her to live the at least 2 days a week but more like 4 days a week any more opinions?</p>
<p>Dump that stupid girlfriend of yours - girls are a pain in the ass.</p>
<p>And if you think you're gonna get any ass from the girl roomates, think again. You've just landed yourself deep in the friend zone with NO exit in sight. They will turn their girl friends away from you. None of them or their friends will respect you as a man. You will end up being a poor, unfortunate guy that has been robbed of his ****. Nice work, slick.</p>
<p>Anyone else who is over 12 want to give me an opinion :)?</p>
<p>That is not rude. :)</p>
<p>Come on people I need help with this urgently..!@!!</p>
<p>You seem to be mature enough to not let anything come of it, movie in.</p>
<p>If you're not ready to wait for people to respond, you're not ready to live with girls.</p>
<p>Im not patient for people to respond because I have homework to do and I have to figure this out in a very little amount of time because of certain constraints, and I just want to get as many opinions as possible. I also juggle a lot in my life as in 17 units Im an athlete so I do not have a lot of time on my hands.</p>
<p>Do what you want, don't let anybody else control you (i.e. gf)</p>
<p>anyone else?</p>
<p>Any reason you can't get a place with some guys?</p>
<p>I was originally going to move out with the dude I am rooming with right now but he browned out because he doesnt want to spend the money, The rest of my teammates either got an apartment on campus because they are upper classmen, or they do not want to go off campus because they are foreign. The reason why I chose the girls is because one I know because she plays on the girls tennis team and she is from where I am originally from and she is good to pay rent the other girl is her roommate and she says that shes a good person so it is my last choice but it is better to me than living in a dorm because I hate the dorm.</p>
<p>Is one of those "open" relationships that are all the rage these days?</p>
<p>No offense, but your gf seems to be a bit insecure and/or has an active imagination.</p>
<p>As long as you know where you stand living w/ girls, I don't see why you should forgo a favorable living situation.</p>
<p>Well personally I would trust my boyfriend in such a situation but I don't really have a jealous bone in my body. I know he has close female friends just like I have close male friends. Hey, I sleep over my male friend's houses because I did before I was dating my boyfriend and it shouldn't have to change.</p>
<p>On the other hand, if she feels that way it's probably better to respect her and try and get a place off campus with some boys. If you truly value you your girlfriend you'll want her to be comfortable. Besides, one of those girls might end up liking you and although you'd certainly never respond, it would no doubt be uncomfortable.</p>
<p>I would HIGHLY recommend against moving in with the two girls; if your girlfriend is worried by the mere thought of you living with them, just imagine what she'd be like if you actually did. </p>
<p>Also, if you truly love her and want the situation to last, I would further advise you against moving. I was "the girlfriend" in a situation that mirrored yours this past September and can tell you that there's PLENTY that could go wrong in it. For example, when my ex-boyfriend (whom I loved at the time) was assigned his college dorm in turned out he was put in a co-ed suite. We talked about it a lot and he promised not to get involved with any of the four girls he was rooming with (there were also two other guys). Unfortunately, however, this promise was difficult for him to keep: he's an attractive enough guy with an outgoing personality and plenty of charisma. As soon as he moved in, the girls threw themselves at him and did everything possible to attempt to gain his interest (asking him to take naps with them on the futon he'd bought for me for when I visited, attempting to kiss him, coming out of the shower in just a towel, etc.). He lasted about a week--pretty impressive for a hormonal driven 19 year-old guy--before he called me to explain his situation and ask for a break. Needless to say it was an incredibly difficult situation for both of us and was undoubtedly the thing that singlehandedly ended our relationship. Even if you can GUARANTEE that you won't do anything with the girls you're planning on rooming with, I'd still urge you to reconsider: your plan of "just sharing an apartment" may not be what your two roommates have in mind. Furthermore, girls can be VERY persuasive creatures, particularly when they want a guy who happens to be unavailable.</p>
<h1>1, I think this is more of a personal issue. Although u should not move woth to girls, move wot her</h1>
<p>Oh please. I'd spent five MAYBE ten minutes trying to convince her that she has nothing to worry about. But other than that, I'd do what I wanted. I doubt that would even happen if it were a boy-girl roommate situation.</p>