<p>I don't know this guy...I have never talked to him, and I don't even know his name.</p>
<p>"I don't know this guy...I have never talked to him, and I don't even know his name."</p>
<p>'Nuff said. </p>
<p>You need to document from now on. Don't throw any letters out - keep them as evidence. If he gets your email address, print out everything. Save them on your hard drive. Keep a journal of when and where you see him, and how he acts. </p>
<p>If even one more creepy incident happens, you tell your mom that you want her to go with you to the police station. If nothing else, the police can make sure they patrol the area around your home.</p>
<p>I understand that this is an amusing dilemma due mostly to its zaniness, but posts #36 and #45 really need to be highlighted for their accuracy. This is possibly unhealthy behavior, in which case it needs to be controlled. Do NOT directly engage the subject. Go to a neutral authority figure and discuss the issue with him/her. Since this is happening in an organizational setting, there should be no shortage of available authority figures. If one of them fails to reassure you that the situation is under control, then find a second.</p>
<p>If this does not resolve the situation to the point where you feel unthreatened, then contact social authorities.</p>
<p>In the meanwhile, do not directly engage him, period. Stay in a large, crowded social setting.</p>
<p>Warning signs, assuming that all allegations have been reliably reported here:
1.) Odd imagery may hint at maladjusted behavior
2.) Such serious feelings for somebody with whom one's never had a conversation
3.) Treating such feelings as actionable implies a failure to recognize social norms.
4.) Going out of his way to watch/stare</p>
<p>Again -- there are some very dark hints here and you need to take them seriously and respond appropriately.</p>
<p>This is all assuming that details have been reliably reported.</p>
<p>For what it's worth, I absolutely agree with Momwaitingfornew and Bluedevilmike. Chocolatelover, if you get a creepy feeling from this guy and he's behaving the way he is, you absoluetly need to act---even if it feels uncomfortable to do so. It sounds like your mother is not taking this very seriously, since you said she laughed at the letter. I suggest going to an adult you trust who will take you seriously. </p>
<p>Most importantly: I have been in a situation like this before, and I understand that you want to ignore him and pretend like there's nothing wrong. It's a normal feeling, but you need to quash it and take some action. Trust me: he's not going to go away, and unless you let him know that his behavior is unacceptable and wrong, he will continue to bother you or other girls.</p>
<p>Don't forget what happened at VT.. be kind, and straight up with him. I highly recommend you NOT speak to a third-party authority about this. It may suck, but confront him, say "sorry" even if you don't mean it, and try to be sincere as possible.</p>
<p>If anything, concerns about violence are all the more reason not to engage him directly.</p>