<p>sauron:</p>
<p>Yeah, I mean why wouldn't girls like wuss'? Totally, I see the logic. ^_-</p>
<p>As for caring about clothes, liyana said it perfectly.</p>
<p>Cheers,
Alex</p>
<p>i dont know any girls who care about 5'9 vs. 6'2. stop exaggerating lol. its probably the insecure short-guy vibes you're emitting that are the problem, not your actual height. confidence will make up for anything ... shortness, bad looks, etc.</p>
<p>the 4 "big" fashion capitals are NYC, millan, london, and paris</p>
<p>isn't 5'9'' the average height for an american male?
i dont c wat the problem is. as a 5'5'' female id way rather date a fit 5'9''er than a chunky 6'2''er. Too tall is intimidating. As long as they pass the heel test (taller than me when im in heels) shouldnt be a problem.</p>
<p>Average height for a male in the USA is between 5'9''-5'10''. I'm in this range and I'm content with my height.</p>
<p>First off, let me say that I agree wholeheartedly with AlexGFX's posts and liyana's post on dressing well. I see plenty of ugly guys with hot girls. And short guys? Are you kiddin' me? The hottest girl I've seen on campus is with a guy who's 5'7'', and she's taller than him, too!</p>
<p>Stop blaming your problems on your height. And no, girls do not care as much about looks as guys do. My own successes in spite of my ugly mug is evidence enough of that. (I'm not rich either).</p>
<p>Which brings me to another point. Don't listen to women when it comes to figuring out how to get women. I'm not trying to be insulting here. But if you could dress a woman up as a man and have her try to find a date, she'll fail miserably.</p>
<p>5'9 is not short, either. It's the average height of adult males over 20 in the US (a relatively tall nation) on Wikipedia.</p>
<p>And most of those speed-dating and other goofy psychological tests (which are severely limited) that you bring up - they only point to physical attractiveness and height for obvious reasons: let's face it, most males are wussbag saps, creepy, shy, needy, low-self esteem, overweight, have poor hygiene, are stupid, do not know the first thing about dressing themselves, aren't outgoing enough and meeting ppl, could be severely sick, and don't know all that much about women. So of course in a room full of 1000 men, when the majority's best line has been "will you go out with me, please?," of course the only distinguishing factor is looks or height or money. And the minority that are confident and good with women (presumably randomly distributed - although good looking guys might be more likely to be confident yet at the same time aren't as inclined to develop a personality) are simply too small to make a bump in the average.</p>
<p>That wasn't exactly helpful.</p>
<p>Great post Mr_Amazing.</p>
<p>Mr_Amazing:</p>
<p>Awesome post, couldn't have said it any better.</p>
<p>:/ 7 in taller is more than tall enough for me, but I suppose for taller girls, it might be an issue. I personally hate having to crane my neck just to talk to someone.</p>
<p>For me (granted at 5'2"), height is practically of the least concern, if you're at least 3-4 in taller than me, I really don't care, I'd probably prefer a shorter guy rather than a really tall one.</p>
<p>Hey, at least you're not 5'1" like this one guy I know.</p>
<p>I'm a girl, 5'7". Any guy who wants to have a chance with me has to be at least my height. Because I'm tall for a girl, I rarely wear heals. So, if a guy can match my height with me in sneakers, then he'll do. I've always felt awkward, always tallest girl in my class, taller than my mom and sis, taller than most of my friends. When it comes to guys, looks are not all that important to me. If a guy is gorgeous but can't think of anything interesting to talk about, it won't work between us. But my perfect guy will be at least my height and it will be in his favor to be taller than me. I don't have many guy requirements that I won't bend on, but this is one of them.</p>
<p>is she a slut?</p>
<p>frostburg, I was always the tallest in middle and primary school. In high school, I was average or even shorter!</p>
<p>I'm pretty short and the guy must be 6'1".</p>
<p>Shows how shallow you are.</p>
<p>Would you want to date a college girl who isn't skinny, has braces, has cokebottle glasses, and doesn't wear trendy clothes like the sorrority girls and is 4'11" if you just saw her on the street? Yeah, you would dismiss her if you guys randomly encountered each other at lets say, a bar so don't even go there about me being shallow because of height. </p>
<p>I'm 4'11, so I don't think wanting a man who is 6'1" is unreasonable.</p>
<p>However, unlike the way loslobos portrayed me, if a guy isn't 6'1", but can make me laugh, is a gentleman, is adventurous, is driven then I would still give him a chance. However, I prefer a guy to be 6'1".</p>
<p>My ex was certainly no model and pretty much just fit your description; skinny, doesnt wear trendy clothes and is maybe 5'1. </p>
<p>Yes, you are shallow. I'm 5'7. So? Who gives a damn about height?</p>
<p>The only thing I mentioned was that I was 4'11".</p>
<p>You made assumptions about my appearance, therefore you are shallow.</p>
<p>Who gives a damn about having small boobs? I've had plenty of guy friends tell me that they want girls with big boobs.</p>
<p>What in the hell are you talking about? I was commenting off of "Would you want to date a college girl who isn't skinny, has braces, has cokebottle glasses, and doesn't wear trendy clothes like the sorrority girls and is 4'11" if you just saw her on the street?"</p>
<p>Because I said my ex fit that description....I never said anything about you specifically...</p>
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<p>What the hell are you talking about? </p>
<p>Fit your description: skinny, doesn't wear trendy clothes is maybe 5'1".</p>
<p>First off I'm not "skinny" and I do wear trendy clothes. You assumed that in that description of a college girl, you thought I was talking about myself. Read your post and mine again honey.</p>