<p>I am a first semester undergraduate freshman at small liberal arts college in the south. When I toured the school, I fell in love. In high school, I was a part of the marching band, so I always had a group of people to talk to. My university does not have a football team, so there is no marching band. I thought I was going to be okay with this, but I'm soon learning otherwise. I only have three/four girls that I call my close friends, but they are applying to our nursing school in a few years and may not get in, and in that case, they will all leave me. Because of the lack of things to do on campus, most people leave every weekend and go home.I feel like my only chance of making friends is joining Greek life here. But if I don't get a bid for a sorority, then I will definitely leave. It's not like I sit in my dorm, I'm involved in campus ministry, and my door is always open. I just feel as if I am surrounded by no one. I feel so alone here. I do like my university, with small classes, great teachers and a fantastic program for my degree, but a struggling social life at a suitcase school makes it hard to see myself here for the next four years. Do I transfer to a bigger college, with a marching band and the sorority that I want, or stay here and try to wait things out? I don't want to leave, and have made the wrong choice, but I also don't want to stay and be miserable. PLEASE HELP.</p>