<p>There are way too many assumptions on this topic. Some people assume that their student's grades are linear. That somehow if they went to an "easier" school that they would automatically do better with a higher GPA and class ranking. Don't bet on it. The vast majority of kids who get "C" in their classes and have attitude problems; "Many times misdiagnosed as ADD and other problems"; have simply been found to have just not been challenged and they are bored. Bored to the point of not caring about the classes. Kids have been known to do WORSE in an "easier" school. I come from a military background. My friends and I have children who have had to move to a new school every 2-4 years. Overseas was easy because most DODD schools are identical. Stateside school were totally different than another one a mile away. Don't assume your kid would do better. We see straight "A" students drop their GPA all the time. We also see "C" students all of a sudden excel. Different classes, teachers, friends, environment, etc... It all affects the student.</p>
<p>Which brings us to the colleges and universities. They are not stupid, and neither is their admission department. They know that there are different schools with different personalities to them. Don't get overly confident when you spit out the words "Competitive High School". The only thing competitive about the school your kid goes to is that they have more kids going to 4 year colleges and more selective universities than another school nearby. But this is usually because of built in expectations; class size; classes available; and gpa. The colleges and universities don't really care what high school you went to. This has been confirmed by many admissions counselors from many different schools. The only difference between a "Competitive" school and a "Public" school in your area is the percentage of students with the expectation of attending 4 year colleges and more selective colleges and universities. With more and more schools having the "IB" program and a full assortment of AP Classes, the so called "Competitive" high school is become less significant and more of a status symbol. Don't get me wrong; a school made up of 85%+ of students with the desire and expectation of going to a good college when they graduate is an easier school to teach and prepare for the ACT/SAT. The education itself however is not any different. And the colleges really don't care.</p>
<p>When you look at the college's applications; beyond the common app; you see that they are interested in the classes you took. They want to know if they were honors, IB, AP classes. They want to see that you took the most difficult classes available and that you did well in them. They care about you class ranking more in public school than in "competitive" schools because they know that the so called "competitive" school is made up of more focused students. Themselves and their parent's involvement. What they care about is your GPA, Weighted or not, and course load. In theory, you could have a senior class of 300 kids and all could have a 3.9-4.0; a class ranking means nothing here. Again, they care that you got that gpa with honor's classes; AP classes; and the IB program. </p>
<p>I only bring this up because there are a lot of parents out there wondering if they are doing their kid an injustice by not sending them to a private school, or one that some people have referred to as a "Highly competitive school". I know when people mention this that they aren't trying to be smug. They are proud of where they are sending their kid to school and believe they are giving their kid the best education available. I'm just telling the other parents here that you can give your kid the same "Best" education in a public school or other local private school. It's a matter of instilling the right attitude when they are younger; keeping them motivated; and giving them the most challenging classes they can accept. Colleges are looking for diversity, A kid in a public school; in Mobile Alabama; in the IB program; taking additional AP classes; with 2200+ SAT 32+ ACT; and all other things being equal such as EC and sports, probably has a better chance of getting into Princeton than the kid from the private "competitive" school in Connecticut or Massachusetts.</p>
<p>There will always be more students applying to a college than will be accepted. There isn't a thing anyone can do about this. That is part of what makes a certain college "exclusive". How many students THEY TURN DOWN. There are a lot of well versed people out there who have written books on how to get into HYPSMC etc.... The list is endless. It's a fact that legacy does play a role. It's not a guarantee, but it helps. After that; it's what makes you different from everyone else. Most colleges pride themselves on being able to provide a truly diverse learning environment. They do this not only with the classes they offer but mainly from the student body and the open exchange of ideas from these different students. They want students from different countries; different races; different economic backgrounds; different states; men/woman; athletes/arts; etc... You have to find what makes you different and exploit that with the admissions counselor. Forget the GPA/Class Rank/SAT/ACT etc... Every other kid applying has the same numbers as you or your kid does. </p>
<p>If you are applying to HYPSMC etc...; then you need to find what makes you different. If you come from a large city/economic hub where a lot of people apply from, then I'm sorry but you WILL HAVE A HARDER time getting into the school. I can't tell you how many school contacted my son; "Seriously"; not only because his SAT/ACT were good; which many kids around the country were; but because of the state we are from. So few kids from Wyoming apply to those schools that they wanted him to apply. We specifically asked them why they contacted us and how they found out. My son didn't make any applications. They get key searches on scores and where you are from; to include other background information. Once the common application was filled out, the rest was amazing. Also, individual colleges at a university so times REALLY NEED STUDENTS. You can do research and find out that I.e: the school of engineering at Princeton happens to be very low on enrolled students. If you mention wanting that major and college on your application; even though most people put undecided or some LAC major down; you have a much better chance of getting into that university.</p>
<p>Anyway; I hope some of this info helps some of the parents who aren't sure about their kid being able to go to a "Competitive" high school. By all means, don't believe a word I wrote here. Talk to your school's guidance counselors and contact the admissions department at the college/university that your kids are interested in. Believe me, they do actually want to talk to you. You can talk to admissions and ask them directly what type of classes, gpa, etc... they are looking for in their applicants. They will tell you the same thing. They want students who have taken the hardest classes that their school has to offer. They want AP Classes, honors, and the IB program. They want a high GPA in these classes. If you have a gpa of 3.90 and your class rank in below top 10% THEY WILL BE CURIOUS. They want a kid who is well rounded. Does sports, leadership positions, clubs, volunteer work, etc.... Wants a kid that knows what they want in college. Knows their MAJOR. (You can always change that later. They goal is to get in). Ask the admissions department and they will tell you all these exact things. I have spoken directly with no LESS than 25 college admissions departments. They have all said the same thing.</p>