I’ve been having this debate with my parents for a while now, as to whether or not I should attend an HBCU to study mechanical engineering. I’m from North Carolina and its always been a dream of mine to attend NC state, which has an amazing engineering program. my parents on the other hand feel, that as a student of color, I wouldn’t receive the same opportunities or support at NC state as I would at an HBCU like North Carolina A&T. seeing as A&T is the countries top producer of black engineers, they feel that it would be my best option to find employment after graduation and to “learn how to operate in a predominately white world” I get what they are saying, but I feel State, should I be accepted, is the best option overall. My family feels I should attend A&T for undergrad, and then do state for grad school, but I cant imagine waiting four more years to make a dream come true. Does anyone have any information on either school regarding which would be the better option. financially, A&T is less expensive, and I was invited to apply for a full ride, plus my mother works there and if needed I could just stay at home (I know they would love to keep me close to home), but my school district received a special grant from the Say Yes to Education foundation, and every graduate will receive full tuition scholarships to any instate public school, so all my family would have to cover is room and board, which my father has specifically told me he can easily pay, but he doesn’t see the need to pay 10,000 dollars for me to sleep somewhere at the school he doesn’t even want me to attend when I could stay at home and attend the school he approves of at virtually no charge. I’ve also been accepted to UNC Charlotte which was originally my 2nd choice, but the same debate begins when I bring up that school as well. I suppose if I wanted to do an HBCU, id try Florida A&M. I don’t know a lot about their program, but I’ve heard good things and I enjoy Florida, but unless I received a full scholarship, I doubt my parents would go for it.
my info
gpa: 3.8
act: 29
sat: math, reading, verbal-1920
math,reading-1270
math:600
reading:670
verbal:650
activities-track and field, cheerleading, orchestra, student council vice president, certified in 4 AutoCAD softwares, lots of community service, and the school musical.