<p>“the kids at penn are way too pretentious and career-driven and will mock you for not know what you want to do with your life”</p>
<p><–“Funny,” the foregoing comment. The West Coast kids I know who have attended Penn (11 of 'em) have complained about the pretentiousness, status-consciousness, and lack of out-of-the-box thinking in the Penn undergrad population and that there is a lack of peer support/appreciation for anyone who veers from the straight and narrow–e.g. headed to med, law, MBA school, right after graduation. As well, Penn has had the reputation of a lot of inventory-taking between and among students ever since my college days (mid-80s).</p>
<p>The socio-intellectual experience, which I believe “it” comes down to, is very different between the schools. Or, put more symbolically, Tufts has (I’ve been told and read) one of the higher percentage pre-frosh populations who do a GAP year while Penn does not. At Tufts, there seems to be the willingness to take divergent roads en route to conventional paths (I think of my daughter who, at this point, wants to be a pediatric surgeon but who will do a GAP year that involves art, starting Arabic (she is fluent in Hebrew and Spanish) a stint with the Israeli paramedics, a program in So. America, and a kibbutz stay. As well, she seems to want to do a major that incorporates language, math, and art; I think of such instincts as not terribly iconoclastic for the Tufts student but not all too common for the Penn undergrad.</p>
<p>Truthfully, both Penn and Tufts are excellent academically (although Penn does not have the Tufts scenario of full professors, exclusively, teaching undergrads), so I would encourage you to look beyond the academics and try to assess what feels like a fit–e.g. does some portion of the student population speak to your values, your “style” of being? </p>
<p>Don’t know about Penn being harder to get into than Tufts. I know exceptional kids who did not get into Tufts who did get into Penn, and I am not referencing the oft-referenced “Tufts Syndrome,” either. I just think that Tufts is looking, once data has been achieved, for more abstract and iconoclastic qualities in its student population. The Tufts admission people seem to be cobbling together a class of kids who are not merely academic but intellectual, (authentically) socially-conscious, real citizens of the world (politically-charged and globally aware). And I believe that Tufts measures such qualities beyond grades and test performance–ergo, the seeming unpredictability of the Tufts acceptances. </p>
<p>Finally, the very conventional, albeit bright, student would probably find more familiarity and comfort at Penn. The academic but free thinker would likely find Tufts more to his/her liking.</p>