<p>*They probably think they are trying to protect and guide her. *
Actor, maybe we can add this: once you are a parent, you learn that it’s not always our good intentions that matter - or how we can “defend” our actions. It’s what the result is on the child, now and over time. And yes, some of it is defined by society, even if not laws. It’s never easy to let go; many times we can only hope and pray our kids make the right decisions, especially as they grow more independent, and that nothing harms them. But, we don’t generally install monitoring equipment, get into assault situations, make a public fuss and report instability to college personnel. Etc. </p>
<p>Actor, I am also curious why you seem interested in performance, if you feel that Aubrey, with her experience and awards, has no prospects.</p>