<p>Do you feel that it is necessary to have sex for a romantic relationship? Or do you believe that it cheapens the emotions felt?</p>
<p>At what point in the relationship does one use the term love?</p>
<p>And, what does the word love mean to you?</p>
<p>ETA</p>
<p>No, Narcissa and I are not having problems.</p>
<p>I just want to have a place for this sort of questions and wonderings, to know what other people think.
I have a feeling that there will be other questions.</p>
<p>Love? Arbitrary 4-letter word often misconstrued as chemicals released from the other four-letter word.</p>
<p>i try not to use that word love. It symbolizes too much to be used... in everyday vocab. I mean, what is love? Baby don't hurt me... no more!</p>
<p>Is sex necessary? No, but is it fun, yes! I mean, if it's fun for both of you, why the hell not? </p>
<p>e.g. "Hi I really like you"
"I like you too, and I like sex"
"What a cowinkydink, sex is enjoyable to me as well!"
<em>sex</em>
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<p>mme-lin, you said it beautifully.</p>
<p>Answer your own question, moldau!</p>
<p>you have a chemical bond. sex helps. have fun. not worry so much...</p>
<p>just curious, is there a min. age for joining CC? imagine the youngsters looking at this post. :) lol</p>
<p>AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MY EYES</p>
<p>Just kidding.</p>
<p>Personally, sex is a very important part of a romantic relationship. Love is what you make of it. Everyone can have their own definition of it. But regarding sex, to me, it strengthens a bond between two people in that sort of relationship if it is in a healthy and respectful way.</p>
<p>wut is that touching me knee......??? OH NOOOO</p>
<p>This thread is a not, in any way, a rehash of the UCLA Bar. :rolleyes:</p>
<p>Love. I dunno why, but it's always the guys who say it first to me. Sometimes not even a week since we "get together". I hate it when they do that. I think it should be used when both people are ready, 'cos "I love you" is such a turn-off when you think you're still in the "fun" stage. </p>
<p>Also, I'm one of those chicks that will dump a guy if he won't put out. Or cheat on him. If I was a dude and I said that, damn I'd be attacked. But I'm a chick. So it's okay. :P</p>
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<p>Focused on what's going on between the legs man. :rolleyes:</p>
<p>I personally hate thinking about it, because I don't have an answer and I don't know. :(</p>
<p>I hate thinking about it too.
Which is why I don't think about it. </p>
<p>Agree with namaste... work > everything else. . . </p>
<p>And thus type like this: aodoaishduisahdiausdhiusada
...OK, not really.
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Age 13 I think to make an account... the nature of making online subscriptions or whatever.
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Love. I dunno why, but it's always the guys who say it first to me. Sometimes not even a week since we "get together". I hate it when they do that. I think it should be used when both people are ready, 'cos "I love you" is such a turn-off when you think you're still in the "fun" stage.
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I love you Hibiscuspink. [/manly deep voice]</p>
<p>When are you out of the fun part?</p>
<p>Exiting the fun-stage... requires a good amount of tears if you're an emotional person... several fights that detox the relationship... or just a big fight usu. over something stupid so that the r-ship does not end... more tears... and a good amount of your life history revealed esp. w/ v. vulnerable, personal, and potentially tear-jerking details.</p>
<p>Well... halp me.</p>
<p>In what way?</p>
<p>I don't know, I don't know what is going on with my life.</p>
<p>Love, huh? Way too easy to get into mushy details here. </p>
<p>But, I think it's just when you can find a person, whom you can randomly call up and just go somewhere to have fun. A person who you can talk to about anything, and whom can keep up interest in the conversation. </p>
<p>I guess you could consider that as a friend, but that person can also make you miss her a lot when you're away. And she can make you smile, whatever the occasion.</p>