<p>Thank you so much for your kind words… We tried hard to evaluate many colleges, and my D’s first thoughts about where she wanted to go totally changed over time as more info came in for her needs. We visited 15 colleges last year starting last February thru October. Her main ‘internet’ 1st choices were Vanderbilt, Davidson College, and Duke and her backup was UGA or UVA. Everything changed over time. </p>
<p>I hope our experience will help others in deciding… There is no one right college without many, many factors considered. </p>
<p>Everyone has different needs and tastes. Her first visit was to ‘Internet’ favorite Vanderbilt and she seemed to like it and we spent much moniey to saty for extra days after initial meetings to visit downtown and the area… she still liked it, but over time while visiting others it quickly dropped of the list. She really loved Davidson College which is an elite LA college in North Carolina and we spent several days there. </p>
<p>We started scheduling Urban-Large, Urban-Small, Public, Private Small, medium and large. Every configuration possible within reason to narrow down things. It may not fit for others, but my D liked the atmosphere of smaller private LA schools like Duke, Davidson, Furman, Agnes Scott, Washington & Lee. On the public side, UVA and others fell by the wayside because if she wanted go farteher away from home, might as well do the private ones. </p>
<p>So in the middle it came down to Duke, Vanderbilt, Davidson (Stanford was just one to prove she could get in)… and UGA, Clemson, and New College of Florida (a small public honors college with huge merit scholarships). </p>
<p>Then it came down to college credits. This may effect AP students, but my D has 41 college credits as she started Dual Enrollment at the 4 year Gwinnett College in Georgia at the age of 14. Some of the privates will take AP (depending on scores) and no dual enrollemt, some will take Dual Enrollment and not AP. (Or what is excepted in either case is only 2 or 3 class credits. With 41 real college credits as an incoming Freshmen, my D did not like the idea of having to re-take college classes she had already taken to satisfy the monetary needs of a private college. For example, an ‘A’ in Calculus from Georgia Tech would be dumped by Vanderbilt. We also feel that eventual advanced degrees will be more important in the long run than the name of the undergraduate degree college. </p>
<p>The privates were dropping off the list due to her credits earned , before entering college, she could decide to double major easily, take it easy (if needed) while adjusting to college life), or whatever and provide more flexibility for whatever her future would hold. Nothing against UGA which is an hour from our house, but she did not like the ‘feel’ of the campus or the town. She loved the ‘feel’ of Clemson. </p>
<p>We searched… Is there another college like the ‘feel’ of Clemson’, far enough away but not too far, that has excellent merit scholarship potential… From websites like College ******* and others Auburn kept popping up and since it is only 3 hours away we visited. Auburn was our last college to visit. </p>
<p>She loved it… Daddy had to check it out for academics and since we knew she was going to be a national merit finalist as well as other high scores on ACT and SAT would mean there would be no loans, no nothing and all the money we could save from what we thought we would have to pay would go to her future, study abriad and advanced degrees (Important since we aren’t rich and have another daugther)</p>
<p>Sorry… That’s our story. Academics are a major concern, but there exists a multitude of other things to consider. My main concern is that my D succeeds over the next 4 years and moves on to graduate stuff. We want her to succeed. There is no way to express in an internet email or forum such as this, the personalities, history or whatever of young 17 and 18 year old people and what is ulitmately best for them. </p>
<p>I can understand being worried about whether a child will be attending a junior/community college versus a 4 year institution, and wanting to send your child to Harvard or Yale versus a public institution. But there are so many needs that vary from financial to opportunity, but #1 is your upcoming college student feeling comfortable whether they made a 22 on the ACT or a 36, or 1200 on the SAT or 1600. </p>
<p>I apologize for being long-winded. I though sharing our experience may help others. Everyone upcoming college student is different. A UGA vs. UVA vs. UNC, vs UF vs Auburn is not really significant in the overall scope of things; they are all closer together from an academic standpoint than looking at lists. Each family an potential student has to look at what is best for them from a variety of angles.</p>