<p>First off, I'm a first-year girl at Cal. My problem sucks. There's this guy in my study group for math and I have the BIGGEST crush on him. I've never, ever crushed on someone this hard; I never cared for math but now I've started looking forward to it just because of this guy. I just love every minute I spend around him and even when I'm not with him, he's what I'm thinking about. I'm a little shy but we always seem to be having a good time when we're together at study group. But what is it; friendliness of flirting? I have no idea :'( We're majoring in the same thing and we have similar college plans in that sense, so I was thinking of asking him if he wants to take major prereq's together next semester. Is that weird if I asked him that as a friend?</p>
<p>It sounds like a perfectly reasonable question to ask someone who’s in the same major to take the same classes in the upcoming semester. Just step up the game a notch.</p>
<p>You unlock this door with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension: a dimension of sound, a dimension of sight, a dimension of mind. You’re moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of things and ideas. You’ve just crossed over into… the ̶t̶w̶i̶l̶i̶g̶h̶t̶ FRIEND zone.</p>
<p>Did you seriously just sign up to get relationship advice? Ahh CC, what have you become?</p>
<p>You’re in college, if you like him, tell him how you feel. He either likes you in which case holy **** dance party <(O.O<) (>O.O)> or he doesn’t v(T.T)v, in which case you move on with your life. Long gone are the days where you sit in a corner with your friends giggling over boys wondering if they like you or not. And no it’s not weird to ask him to take prereq’s together next semester, a friend is somebody you presumably want to hang out with.</p>
<p>I’ve already made plans for next semester to take the same classes with most of my current classmate-friends. Not wierd at all. Go make friends with other girls (preferably ones that attended coed schools) and get advice from them.</p>
<p>You’re a female, so you have it easier than the guys.</p>
<p>Here’s what you do:</p>
<p>1.) Be obvious about indicating that you’re interested in him. If he’s interested, then you’ve just made it much easier for him to start dating you. If not, unlike the other way around, your currently friendly relations with the guy usually won’t change.</p>
<p>2.) Give other hints and even think about being direct. It may be weird, but 95% of the challenge is in your head. Unless the guy actually finds you physically repulsive, he’ll be down to date you (and even go further).</p>
<p>The main question is whether or not you have the courage to do any of that.</p>
<p>I think you’re talking about me. I like you too… but I wasn’t sure and I didn’t want to make things awkward between us since I like the time we spend together too…</p>
<p>Lol this is kinda cute and I sure hope everything works out between you and him OP, but even if it doesn’t, life moves on as many others in this thread said.</p>
<p>PS: That said I’m so jealous of the people actually have some kind of romantic life here and apparently the drama they go through because of this is their “Huge Berkeley dilemma”. My dilemma is hoping to do well on my midterms by studying smart and hard to get good grades in my classes so that I can apply for research and related matters lol. I’m starting to think I’ll never have any romance in my life other than from watching romantic comedies…</p>
<p>Wait what if Chango isn’t actually the guy but he’s just some CCer who’s trying to get her to be confident enough to admit her true feelings for him? The probability that the guy would be on this thread and then think she’s the one by just seeing her screen name doesn’t really make sense, but I guess it’s good to be hopeful…</p>
<p>Ugh, I’m just reading the texts we’ve exchanged again like a loser, but OMG. He’s the nicest, sweetest guy ever I can’t wait for math class to see him again LOL</p>
I can’t wait for math class to see him again LOL</p>