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<p>You’re right to say that if partying becomes an issue now, it’ll be an issue later. Realize that in college people will change, including your girlfriend. She might go through a phase of experimenting with various crowds and different activities before settling down. You have three options, if this is the case: accept it and party with her but hate yourself for going against what you believe in, let her party and not participate but feel a little resentful that she is doing these activities, or move on. You shouldn’t break up with her right away, but just realize that it’s tough, and you shouldn’t expect her to not change. Also be aware that college is a great place to meet tons of different people, and if you focus too much on your girlfriend you’ll be missing out on experiences for yourself. Give each other space to explore your individual selves, go to some parties with some new college friends and let her hang out with her own friends every once in a while. You don’t want to be one of those guys who goes into college completely dependent on their gf, goes through a bad break up, and finds himself with no support group because he didn’t bother to make any new friends.</p>
<p>People change.
She will not be the same person she was in college as she was in high school. Neither will you.
You two may have been right for each other at some time but that could change. Don’t try to force a relationship that is not right.
If she changes in college, then that is who she is. Don’t try to change her.
Accept it. Move on.
Don’t stay in a relationship just for the sake of time and past memories.</p>