I am currently a freshman and attend one of the only state universities in my state that offer my major, fashion. When I visited this school, I was not completely in love with it because it is a total commuter campus in a not so nice town with not much to do, but I felt I would have to attend there since it was the only school that offered my major and gave me free tuition since I receive the veterans fee waiver only at public schools in my state. I live in a suite on campus rather than the traditional dorms which I think was a huge mistake on my part. They are so secluded that I have not met anyone in the building or even seen much for that matter. I get along with my roommates fine but they never want to go out anywhere and socializen. I’ve also joined a fashion club, but haven’t made any solid, good friends there. It’s too late for me to switch to the dorms and only freshmen are allowed to live there so I can’t move there next year also. I’ve looked into other schools with my major but none of them are public which means I would pay a lot more since I wouldn’t be able to use my fee waiver. My experience here has made me feel so frustrated, depressed, and honestly more lonely than ever. I think I’m a good and fun person to be around so I’m sad and confused about my situation being like this. I really love my major and can’t wait to start my career in fashion, but I don’t know if getting my fashion degree while being miserable here is worth that. If you have any advice for me, any kind of help would be greatly appreciated
Check into other housing options and see what is available to you. Keep trying.
I think you should keep trying. I’m awful at giving advice for socializing since I don’t care too much for it. I have friends but they have never seen my apartment and I can only interact with people for so long ha. They understand and enjoy my quirks or at least I haven’t heard complaints. Have you tried other clubs that aren’t related to your major? Maybe an improv group? If all else fails maybe try to get volunteer experience at a clothing store setting up their window displays or something?
Can you find a part time job in a place with a lively atmosphere?
I agree at finding other clubs that are not related to your major. It can be a fun way to get out of your comfort zone and learn something completely new. Ever wanted to learn the ukelele? american sign language? ballroom dancing? martial arts? writing short stories? Seek out those opportunities at your school and you might find your niche