<p>My kid applied and was accepted at SLU, with a HUGE scholarship, which was graciously declined. (ugh!). Long story. But we liked St. Louis (city) and the campus. And yes, soccer and basketball are two of the big sports on campus. Its its own campus, with flowers and trees and grass etc. Midtown. Not the dregs, not too fancy…but fun. Its a great school. We met faculty and liked them too. Nice people. </p>
<p>I dont know you Dr. G. I can’t (and won’t speak for you) or make your decision for you. But I can make suggestions based on what you post and my perception of what interests you. I highly recommend all Jesuit colleges, whether that is Santa Clara, Seattle U, Gonzaga, Saint Louis U, Creighton, Marquette, Fordham, BC, Holy Cross, Canisius…Loyola Chicago, Loyola Maryland. All fine schools. They differ on their environs and local flavor. Most are in the inner cities of their locations. For you, with what you have stated, I recommend Seattle U strongly because of its programs, its location, the outdoors, sports (they were national champs I believe in Division II soccer a few years ago, before they returned to Div 1A last year). SLU is very similar to Seattle Univ. </p>
<p>I empathize with your process. Its hard to cut off names from the list, but you must do it. Is it arbitrary? yes. My kid said, “I am not looking backwards, I am looking forwards!” and did just that. You make your decisions, only checking to make sure its rational, and then go with that. Get your list down to 10-12 schools and apply to them. 3 or 4 reach, match, safety with the MOST emphasis on the match/safeties as they will be the ones who likely take you and offer you money. If you get in a reach, congrats! You can decide LATER on whether to accept their offer or not. I am NOT a fan of ED whatsoever. In fact, I think it should be abolished. EA is fine. RD is fine. </p>
<p>Going away to college is exciting. But also stressful for your parents and you. And at all schools the honeymoon wears off eventually. And the annual trek back to school after holidays is wearing. Being away from home can be tough for some kids (not for others.) Do you want to be far, far away? Or just far enough away that you are not “still at home” but can get home if you want within 4 hours? These are your questions and your answers, not mine. Everyone is different. I know kids who are at school in their hometown (ACC schools) and are doing marvelously. I know others who lament not going away. Conversely I know kids who went too far away…and have issues. </p>
<p>Are you male or female? I presume a male. Boys used to tend to do better if away from home…but that is a generalization. And now girls do just as well away from home, IF they are emotionally prepared for it and can assimilate into a new culture easily. </p>
<p>Do you have any special needs? Health issues? </p>
<p>There are over 2,000 colleges in the United States and all of them are “special” in their own way and offer an outstanding education. Who is to say that St. Olafs is not as good as Colby or Bates? No one should. Or UMinn is better than UW? Same answer. It comes down to YOU and what YOU want/need/can handle. </p>
<p>Every college has kids who were valedictorians and top 10% and SAT’s in the 90th percentile. So pick the college(s) best suited to your interests, needs, personality…or if you are a contrarian…that will challeng you the most and give you the most upside learning potential. You aren’t a clone. Be yourself. </p>
<p>Best of luck.</p>