Urgent Question for John Wesley

<p>To John Wesley:</p>

<p>I’ve been reading your posts and it seems like you know quite a bit about Wesleyan and the college admission process. I hope you’ll bear with me as I describe my situation.</p>

<p>I was recently notified that I was placed on a waiting list for acceptance to Wesleyan. I am certain that I would matriculate if accepted. The school seems tailor-made for me–its strongest departments are exactly those which I am interested in (film, literature, music, anthropology/sociology, philosophy, etc.) I’m especially into music, although I’m nearly good enough to go to a conservatory, and so Wesleyan’s accessible department with many varieties of world music ensembles, esoteric classes on experimental music and the like, and jazz ensembles is extremely attractive. The students seem to be uniquely intellectual, artistic, and altruistic. The size is perfect–not too big, not too small. I actually love the location–a small, rickety old town not far from Boston or New York, with sites of great natural beauty close by as well.</p>

<p>Well, with all this, you’d think I would have just applied Early Decision. The thing is, when I was deciding where to apply to college, I was having all sorts of existential doubts about where I belonged, what kinds of people would be there, etc. I thought it would be difficult to commit myself to attending a University for four years without having a chance to stay with some students and get a good feel for those that call it home. I had visited Wesleyan before, but it was right before Thanksgiving when there weren’t too many people around. And so, overloaded with AP classes, various music gigs, finishing up SATs and writing and re-writing essays, I decided just to play it safe and apply to a bunch of places I liked, visiting them in the Spring when I would have time to do so. I was cocky enough to expect I’d just get in.</p>

<p>Now I come to my dilemma. In Wesleyan’s letter, they said the only thing to do (besides doing well in school) is to write a letter that shows the strength of your interest. They also said that they would begin offering admission to students on the waiting list immediately after May 1st, when responses from admitted students begin arriving. I think it is fair to assume, then, that they spend April sorting through students’ letters and determining who goes where on the list. It makes sense that the earlier one writes a letter, the stronger one’s interest appears. I am wary, however, of writing a letter right now, as my letter may not be as strong as that of someone who spent a night with students and can write about her affinity for the people there, perhaps department heads met with, etc. I will be attending WesFest in a few weeks, and I am sure that my letter will be much more convincing after attending.</p>

<p>So here comes my question. Which of the following should I do?</p>

<li><p>Write a sort of preliminary letter now explaining why Wesleyan is uniquely suited to my needs, writing a stronger, fuller letter after returing from WesFest later this month, declaring that I will matriculate if accepted.</p></li>
<li><p>Write a letter now about how Wesleyan fits me academically. (Is a letter about the academic fit wiser than one that details the overall fit, perhaps employing a bit of wit?)</p></li>
<li><p>Wait until I get back from WesFest and write a strong letter then.</p></li>
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<p>Thanks for your help. I can’t seem to decide which makes the most sense, and my guidance counselors at school are little help.</p>

<p>Can waitlisted kids go to Wesfest? I didn't know that!</p>

<p>My personal advice would be #1. A letter about how Wesleyan fits you academically won't help you that much at this point; it's something to include, but you should explain why the whole package is PERFECT, and especially for YOU. I feel like at this point, it's better to seem desperate than not interested, so I'd err to that side, though try not to get annoying about it... it's really a fine line :P No harm in following up saying you went to Wesfest and (if it's true) (which it should be since wesleyan is amazing) that it's even more perfect than you'd previously realized.</p>

<p>One thing that might but might not make you feel better... last year, there was a girl who was really active in the Wesleyan LJ community and was ridiculously awesome and bonded with us... and we met up with her in real life and everything... she was fantastic and the most "Wesleyan" a person could be. And then she found out she got rejected. Not waitlisted, rejected. She was crushed, and so were all of us. Then she went to her state school (Maine) and now she's found her group and she's actually having an incredible time. I'm still sad, because I miss her, but while Wes is amazing... you'd probably survive at other schools as well. Plus, there's always the opportunity for transferring! (Wes accepts plenty of transfers!)</p>

<p>Good luck!! You sound cool, I'm rooting for you.</p>

<p>anonymousn: not officially, but if you just stay in someone's room or a nearby hotel, they can't stop you :D</p>

<p>I don't know anybody who attends, how would I go about doing this?</p>

<p>You don't have to register for WesFest, you just show up. Didn't you get a letter when you were waitlisted? It said you should definitely visit Wesleyan. What better time to visit than when you can meet accepted students?</p>

<p>Thanks, madjoy. Were you accepted?</p>

<p>I believe mj is in the middle of her first year (`09)
And, yes, I would go with her suggestion: send them a virtual copy of what you just posted (of course, now that 500 people have read it, get ready for copycats) AND follow up with another letter after you've visited the place. If there is a single aspect of the Wesleyan admissions process that resembles the all too symbolic "lottery" approach of HYP and other schools, it is the waitlist; Wesleyan will have ninety percent of the class pretty much in place and will be looking to shore up "weak spots": a URM here and there (okay, we've covered that in other threads), athletes who didn't quite earn a coach's tip during the first go-round, might get off the waitlist with one; and don't forget about all the budding physicists, biophysicists, chemists and biochemists (am I leaving out anyone?) to help fill those NSF funded laboratories that place Wesleyan at the very top of all nationally recognized LACs.</p>

<p>Frankly, I think your best shot would be if another woman just like you (someone interested ethnomusicology or musical performance) suffers a brain seizure and chooses to go on to Berkeley, or Cornell or some much bigger university for prestige reasons -- which, of course, happens every year and is the principal reason so many hidden treasures like yourself wind up taking their places at matriculation dinner (yeah, it's a little like Hogwart's -- but, without the talking hat thingie.) So, good luck. To all of you!</p>

<p>i should mention that i know a bunch of non-athlete, non-prodigy, non-minority kids who got in off the waitlist last year. things may be different now, but just remember that it DOES happen, so don't give up hope.</p>

<p>Oh, absolutely. I did not mean to imply that there was a clear science to this. The vast majority of you who gather during Orientation will be slapping your heads along with everyone else, trying to figure out why you were admitted. If you're very lucky, at some point during your four years, you <em>might</em> bump into an admissions dean who <em>might</em> remember reading your file and share a chuckle or two at what stuck in their mind about you.</p>

<p>Thanks, John Wesley. Actually, I'm a man. Do you really think people would copy what I wrote? It's so specific to me. If they do, it could potentially ruin my chances. What should I do about this? You think an administrator would take it off the site?</p>

<p>Nah, it won't help much. I don't think people will copy word-for-word... just the general idea "Hey! I should write a letter about how much Wesleyan is perfect for me, too!" even if it's less true for them than it is for you. Good luck!</p>

<p>(And yes, I'm class of '09)</p>

<p>Like WOW and community service? When do they start? I can't find anything on the Wes website, and I've misplaced the handouts from WesFest. Any information greatly appreciated! Also, how does one sign up?</p>

<p>Don't worry, you should get more detailed information about them later in the summer, probably in the giant packet along with housing information. These programs aren't actually pre-orientation, but take place on one of the days during orientation. However, there IS a pre-orientation Jewish-focused camping trip for a few days before orientation starts - if anyone is interested in that, contact me!</p>