I was unsure about Grinnell as well until I read this. Here is what someone replied to one of my posts (he is transferring to Vandy next year):
I have NO academic problems with Grinnell. If you are looking for a truly academic experience with no real worry about social life, then Grinnell is great for you! There is a reason that Grinnell breeds a lot of PhDs per capita; it’s a really great environment if you passionately love a subject and want to pursue that subject in graduate school.
Unfortunately, the social scene at Grinnell is, in my opinion, very bad. Weekends revolve around two parties (Harris, Gardner) and occasionally some parties on High Street. There are no substance free activities besides [weekend], which is a group that runs the substance free weekend activities (like the name suggests). These activities are usually gym games, board games (yahtzee, monopoly, taboo), or cookie/food decorating. As a college age student, these activities aren’t very fun. They can be alright, but they get old very quickly. The attendance is also probably only 12-20 people from across the entire campus. That’s pretty bad, considering it’s the only substance free event. Occasionally you have karaoke or something of the sort, but not incredibly often. Most of my friends are substance friendly, but they even get tired of no real options other than partying. It’s very much a “work hard, play hard” environment. In town, there is the strand (a local theater) that is fine, but it’s also pretty sad to have to go to the strand every weekend to keep yourself entertained. Shuttles to Des Moines and Iowa City are not well advertised and are about once a month, so you can’t leave town very often if you don’t have a car. In addition, most ECs are dedicated to hobbies (breakdancing, cooking, baking, etc…) and there are very few pre-professional/career exploration/volunteer ECs. Community Meal and tutoring are the only volunteer ECs I can recall. Many clubs are kept relatively secret, so friends can just share/use the campus funding to explore the club interests of their friend group. If they aren’t kept secret, they are usually poorly advertised. FMs come around every week and tear down posters, so groups without high levels of motivation stop putting posters up. During the week, you might find a random guest lecturer or two, which can be fun to go to, but there isn’t much to do beyond that. You can find a hobby-esque club or two to attend, but there isn’t much else to do other than homework. In a way, the social scene is very binary and claustrophobic. I came to college wanting to be very active on campus, but I just can’t find many groups that really give me a high level of fulfillment, since most of them are hobby groups. There are also a lot of social justice groups on campus. They mostly sit and talk about social justice more than they actually practice social justice. This is partially due to youth culture and the isolation of the campus.
SO, in other words, I think Wisco would be better!