<p>You need to go and visit those schools, all of them, even UVa, even though you think you may not apply. You need to go see for yourself. Other people can give you their judgments and opinions, and those can be helpful, but you need to go see for yourself.</p>
<p>Are you a HS junior? Now is the time you should be making the Spring Break College Road Trip. Hit as many of the ones you are interested in as possible before their spring semesters end (early May for most of them). Then go back in the fall and look at the ones that are still in contention, especially if you want to apply ED or EA (although I’m not sure you want to go ED or EA if you don’t yet know which school is the one for you).</p>
<p>I’m partial to William & Mary but then I’m an alum, married to an alum, have a sister who’s an alum and who is married to an alum. Oh, and my son is a junior at W&M, majoring in English and anthropology. Well, actually, he is majoring in *The Flat Hat<a href=“%5Burl=Home - Flat Hat News”>/i</a>. I have loved W&M since I first saw it when I was 12 years old (1973!), loved my four years there, and love going back for visits. </p>
<p>My daughter applied and got in, but it looks as though she will be going elsewhere (she still has two in contention) - she wants engineering so W&M doesn’t make the cut. If it had engineering, it would be hands-down her first choice. (But the two still in contention are really great schools.) It has taken us over two years of visits, research, open houses, applications, etc. to narrow the list from 40 or 50 possibilities to 15 or so to visit with visits to 18 (with two visits to several and three to one of them), to applications to nine, acceptances from all nine, and, over the past week, winnowing down to four, and, today, down to two. Final decision probably not until the end of the month. Whew! I’m glad it’s almost over! Of course, then begins the part where my paycheck just gets direct deposited straight to the winning college.</p>
<p>Good luck with your search - and it is a search.</p>