<p>Hello, all. We've gone through the chance threads, the anxious pacing by the (e)mailbox, and now we have the real decision in front of us: where will we be in six months time. </p>
<p>As you've likely guessed from this thread's title, I'm currently trying to decide between Washington and Lee and Tulane. Both have offered comparable scholarship packages (little to no debt factoring in my parents' contribution), so that's not a factor here. </p>
<p>I don't mean to offend anyone, but I do bring up a few stereotypical/largely anecdotal aspects of W&L in this post. I know that I have to take what I hear with a grain of salt, but I still want to get the rational opinion of a few of you smart cookies and put my worries to rest. </p>
<p>In that spirit, I have a few general questions/concerns that I'd like to pose to the general public. </p>
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<li><p>There's a stereotype of W&L as a hotbed of rich, largely Caucasian, preppy kids. I'm hesitant to put a ton of faith in this, since I did visit and found everyone incredibly kind and gracious, but I did want to fish for some other experiences, since I was only able to interact with a limited number of students directly. I'm not a minority or anything (not that it would be bad thing...I'm just not =D ), but I'm from the north, and my normal attire probably tends more towards jeans and a simple blouse/T-shirt/hoodie than towards sundresses and skirts. Do you think I'd feel massively out of place? </p></li>
<li><p>What is the intellectual climate (yes, I know that sounds pretentious, but I can't think of any better way to word what I'm trying to get across) at W&L? I know the academic ratings are very prestigious, but would I be ostracized if I actually enjoy academics and activities more towards the "nerdy" end of the spectrum as opposed to being a 100% party animal? </p></li>
<li><p>The small town. Have those from suburbs/mid-large cities felt claustrophobic being in this insular of an environment? What I'm largely afraid of, with this small of a school, and the limited non-school community, that it would become a bit of a gossip echo machine...also what my mother's concerned about. </p></li>
<li><p>Do you think that I, as I described myself above (geeky, not overly girly, middle class) would find a niche socially? I'm a little shy when I first meet people, but I open up pretty quickly once I feel comfortable. Do you think I'd "fit" into any of the sororities, based upon what you know of the "personalities" of each? I heard over and over how women who wouldn't have seen themselves in a traditional sorority ending up in one at W&L, but still...</p></li>
<li><p>Are there social avenues that don't include drinking 4 nights a week? I'm not totally against partying or anything, but I'd like a little variation in my college social life.</p></li>
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<p>I know this post is weighted towards my concerns, but that's because I've already experienced the reasons I love W&L for myself, and I only need opinions about the aspects I'm a tad wary of .Thanks for anyone who helps me in this tough choice by responding!</p>