<p>In all fairness, depression can be a beast to overcome. And it can definitely affect your school work. I suffered from depression through my freshman and sophomore years, and my grades took a beating for it. That said, I had much more substantial issues to contend with than “going to a different school where I didn’t know anybody.” In fact, I did transfer to a school where I didn’t know anyone my junior year, but it in and of itself didn’t adversely affect me in any way, shape, or form. You make new frieinds; life goes on. Cheshire Cat, to be honest it appears as though you’re making excuses. I’m compelled to think that a large amount of the perceived depression might have been of your own self accord, meaning that you were overly self-pitiful. You can’t live in a bubble and then complain when sombody or something pops it. Life is full of instances where you have to step outside your comfort zone.</p>
<p>First and foremost, your SAT. You’ve really screwed yourself over. I’m not sure if you even realize how much harm you’ve done yourself. Retake it. ASAP! You’re not even getting into community college on that. Buy prep books, talk to teachers, councilors, whoever – just bring that score up. You don’t have a snowball’s chance in hell at anything if you don’t do better on standardized testing. You need to take some SAT II Subject tests also. Don’t just pick them randomly (for some reason, I have a feeling you’d do that…); play off your strengths. Obviously math and English aren’t your strong points. So take some science tests.</p>
<p>Grades: Work your butt off senior year. Get that 2.3 up to a 3.3. Stop whining and put your nose to the grindstone. For some people it takes a swift kick in the ass to wake up (I’m one of them too), and hopefully this has shocked you into reality a bit. If you can honestly take some AP/honors classes and do well (note the word “honestly”), do so. You’ll likely have to sign a waiver since you don’t meet the minimum criteria, but do it anyway. This will prepare you for the rigor of the CC courses (assuming you get in; I’m guessing this is a summer school program). You can’t just flunk and D- your way through high school and then say, “Oh, well I’m magically going to start making Bs.” That’s not a realistic statement, college level rigor notwithstanding. Once you add that factor in, your statement becomes even more ludicrous.</p>
<p>You need to get involved in extra cirriculars also. Join a club, do community service, anything. Normally people are told to hone in on their passion and specifically focus on what they excell at. You, don’t listen to them! Go for anything – anything – that will accept you.</p>
<p>Finally, your parents are being very fair. In fact, your dad is doing more than I would. At least he’s trying to help get you in a school. I’d give my son or daughter the exact same talk I just gave you and be done with the whole mess. Don’t play it off as if I, others here, or your parents are somehow abandoning you, either. You’re a young adult and you bear your own cross. If you didn’t want to be “abandoned”, then you should have worked harder. This is the exact self-induced, ‘woe is me’ mentality I spoke to earlier.</p>
<p>Regardless, best of luck to your situation. I’m sure it’s a difficult one. And while I don’t really have sympathy, I am sorry to hear that you’re in a rut.</p>