<p>I worked. My parents definitely didn’t give me any money.</p>
<p>My freshman year I worked as a program assistant in the office of continuing education, 10 hours a week. My sophomore year, I was a resident assistant, and we got paid. I also did in-home tutoring for Kaplan that year. At the end of my sophomore year I applied for an undergraduate fellowship program that I got into, so during my junior and senior years I was paid by the fellowship program in return for 15 hours of research assistantship each week.</p>
<p>The RA gig was the hardest to balance with schoolwork – I quit halfway through my junior year because they increased our workload without increasing our pay and I just couldn’t handle it anymore, plus I had the money from the fellowship. The program assistant job was the easiest, since it was only 10 hours a week and was just filing and answering the phone and stuff.</p>
<p>If you do get a job (which I recommend) I recommend working on campus if possible, and if not working as close to campus as you can possibly get. I mean you want to work somewhere that you can fit in between classes and your other activities (like at my program assistant job, I worked between classes on Mondays and Wednesdays and for about 4-5 hours on Fridays, which I had free). The tutoring work was difficult because I didn’t have a car, so I had to rely on others (mostly my boyfriend) to drive me and that’s mostly why I quit, because I really liked it and it was flexible work.</p>
<p>I wasn’t eligible for work-study.</p>
<p>I also never took an internship that didn’t pay. Being that my parents didn’t give me any money, I couldn’t really afford to do this; besides, even at 19 I recognized the value of my labor and would be damned to give someone free labor. Sometimes it’s worth it to take an unpaid internship, but often you can find an equivalent internship that’s willing to pay you at least enough to live on. For example, if you want to do research internships over the summer, you should never take those unpaid (there are so many that will pay you around $3,000 for a summer, plus house you and feed you). If you want a government internship, though, that might be worth it.</p>
<p>My first two summers in college I worked at a summer camp for 5-12 year olds, and my third summer I did a research internship on adolescence in poverty in southern Alabama. It was hot.</p>
<p>It took me a while to realize what Vehicle meant by dancing (until I saw the next post, actually). A lot of girls in my school did that too, and it actually was one of the better paying jobs, of course, if you can handle it. An almost-as-lucrative position is waitressing, especially at a really popular restaurant – if you can get good tips, that is. Some of my friends waitressed and they made a LOT of money especially on the weekends.</p>