<p>Thats what every girl says iciclerose88, but most of them end up going after the macho guy instead.</p>
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the guy who wears express, is clean, classy, a la david beckham.
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lol i don't like guys like that.. fussy about dirt and cleanness and fashion. that should be my role, not his.</p>
<p>yes, i will admit to occasionally liking the more manly guys! with big hands and everything, lol.</p>
<p>The number one thing that gets to me is how caring the guy is. Not just to me, but to his family, friends, and regular strangers. He doesn't have to be a superhero or anything, but a guy who can care and take care of people other than himself is pretty hot to me. </p>
<p>Then...(not necessarily in order)
A guy who can easily switch from humorous to serious.
A guy who does not put down everyone who has a different opinion from him.
A guy who knows how to have fun.
A guy who knows how to have fun.
A guy who's confident in himself without too much of an ego.
A guy who's protective but doesn't get easily jealous.
A guy who stays loyal
A guy who understands that sometimes you need some alone time.
A guy who is NOT a human door mat
(much more)</p>
<p>Intelligence, looks, or money doesn't mean much to me at my point of life. </p>
<p>ALSO. I KNOW that there are a lot of girls out there who like these quilities and I KNOW that there are a lot of girls out there that like these qualities and are hott!!! So c'mon guys! Stop whining!</p>
<p>I could never make a list of the "things" I want in someone. They need to just have "it." Either they're a match, or they're not. You can have every quality on a list and still be terrible, or have none and be a perfect match.</p>
<p>totally agree with you beginning. me being a guy, a girl has to have the intangbles. there are millions of girls who are nice, funny, smart, personable etc. etc. all rolled up into one package. but what separates one of them from the crowd is having the intangibles. i hope this makes sense. it= the intangibles</p>
<p>Ahaha, quite frankly, the first thing is the appearance. If they pass the appearance test I check for personality, a reasonable level of intelligence, and shared interest. As for appearances... being dirty and grimy is not "manly", it's repulsive. A disturbing number of guys seem to think that they're exempt from basic laws of cleanliness. Amazingly greasy hair and dandruff is an instant turn-off. It's like actually washing your face or getting the dirt out of your fingernails more than once a month is "gay". No, it's not.</p>
<p>The funny thing about me is that I, without a doubt, go after the metrosexual guy. Maybe its cause my father is VERY macho but I just dont really like that rough/tough kinda guy. The only exception I seem to make for this rule is for rednecks. Im sorry, but I fall for em sometimes. Of course, it would be perfect if he was a metrosexual redneck (believe me, they exist! my last bf was one). Theres just something about going muddin' with your boyfriend that seems to do a lot for me.
And is no one ever gonna get this thing about looks? Okay, looks are def the first thing you look for, but that doesnt mean that every girl wants the same kind of guy. In fact, most girls are looking for different things. I think Daniel Radcliffe (Harry Potter for you ppl who dont know) is like, the most delicious piece of man meat on the planet...but all of my friends think Im nuts. This gives hope to everyone I suppose...because it means that there will be someone for everyone. The only real problem with this is that maybe when you finally find someone who wants you, you wont want them... but oh well! :D I've decided to not look for boys in the next few weeks.. I just had a bad experience so I think Im just gonna sit around and watch myself get hotter...and if good-looking boys happen to come along and touch me..well, Im not gonna stop em.</p>
<p>What do I look for in a guy? Hmmmm. <em>scratches head</em></p>
<p>(1) He has to be good looking and has to look like he takes care of himself. Muscles are fine by me and a six pack is too. :) But no overdoing it.
(2) He has to be able to make me laugh.<br>
(3) He needs to be somewhat intelligent. Intelligent people can carry conversations!
(4) He needs to be real. I don't like fake ****. I don't like guys who lie constantly or try to be rebels OR TRY to impress me. Either it's there or it's not.
(5) Confidence is a plus. I seem to fall for the types though where basically they're confident to a level of pure...arrogance. I think that's sexy and I have no clue why.<br>
(6) Needs to be talented in some way. I don't care if it's in art or athletics.
(7) He needs some bedroom skills.<br>
(8) He needs to be well-endowed. Call me shallow if you wish. Size does matter. Just something I've observed from experience. ;)</p>
<p>Oh wow. I just realized it said top 3 things...</p>
<p>bahahahaaa... that was really funny.. number 8!!! hahaha!!!!!!!</p>
<p>Yeah there's those people who are all, "It's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean." I'm always all, "Nah, man. It's both." lmao</p>
<p>What about "Preppy" guys? Is dressing preppy too much?</p>
<p>"It's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean. But it sure takes a long time to get to England in a rowboat."</p>
<p>mmm.. i like preppy guys. :::shrugs:::</p>