<p>This is the first MIT thread I have ever read and I have been on CC for six years. I ventured over here because my daughter is admitted and has chosen to attend MIT for graduate school this coming fall and is very excited as are we. </p>
<p>I just read Ben Golub's post and his description fits my daughter to a T and so if this is accurate, she has found the perfect fit:</p>
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sakky -- you don't seem to understand at all what motivates the good people at MIT. getting a top paying job out of college is such a small goal in the sight of many of them. as differential said, many of these people are hardcore not because of social pressure to be hardcore but because of a deep inner drive to strive and achieve greatly. it's amazing how much small-scale careerism dominates your thinking and impoverishes your understanding of smart kids and good schools.
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<p>My D is currently a senior at Brown University which she has loved. Like when she chose Brown, her choice of MIT is similar in that she cares about how she'll like the school and that it fits what she wants, as well as is challenging. As a college applicant, she never had the thinking of "I must attend an IVY" or anything like that. Prestige is not her motivator. And for CERTAIN she has never thought (nor do I) that the name of the school she attends will have a bearing on her future earnings in her career. She never thought if I attend X college, I may make more money. Never ever. I never have considered that either when thinking of where she might attend college. Getting a "top paying job" some day has never been something she has desired. She does desire to have a career in her interest area.</p>
<p>She DID want a school that would challenge her....a good school that fit her selection criteria. While I would agree with sakky on the point that we, her parents, value education and passed that down, that's as far as I agree. What I very much never considered, nor agree with, is sakky's notion that the school she attends may lead to greater career or economic success. I don't think the name of my kid's college is going to earn her economic success. I do think attending college will create greater opportunities. I want her to attend a college that fits what she wants and where others are equally motivated and driven like she is because she thrives and enjoys such an environment. The education itself is worth it to me for the experience itself. Having these degrees will help her in life as a person and hopefully be able to have a good career (not necessarily a high paying one) as well. I don't see a linkage to the name of the school with potential earnings. </p>
<p>While I agree that funding her education is due to our valuing education itself, as well as a chance for a career that is satisfying, I don't think of paying for a particular college over some lesser college in terms of the one college might lead to greater ECONOMIC success. I don't think it that way at all and neither does my kid. Going to college should lead to greater career opportunities and yes, she may meet people in college that may lead to something else. But I don't see a certain college or one of its ilk as leading to more money. </p>
<p>My kids attend top schools for their fields. But my kids' fields are not high paying fields, nor do I (or they) care. They have gone after their interests, are highly motivated and driven and have chosen schools where they can be challenged and where they feel they will enjoy going to school. They didn't pick schools with economic success in mind. Yes, they did pick to go to college in the first place due to a value on being educated and in a greater chance to have a career some day in the fields they wish to pursue. Then, they looked for colleges that fit them, and not for which college may earn them more money some day. I went to grad school at Harvard and I am in a low paying profession as well. My kids are not entering high paid professions either. My kids are exactly like Ben describes....highly motivated, very driven, like to achieve and are passionate about what they do. They are leaders as well. They wanted "good schools" for the experience while there, not for how much they may earn some day. I think they will earn the same no matter which schools they had picked. The part that is different in picking a school is that they picked ones that they really liked that they felt fit them. So, I am glad to read what Ben says about a typical MIT student. I think my D will fit in just right. :) </p>
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For those who still disagree, let me put it to you this way. Imagine a world where college doesn't lead to greater career opportunities, or at least, is not believed to lead to greater career opportunities. How many people would still go to college? Or, perhaps more poignantly, how many parents would teach their kids to value college and would still pay it? Be honest.
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<p>Again, while I agaree that college can lead to greater career opportunities than not attending college, where I disagree is that a certain college or a prestigious college may not lead to more or better economic opportunities than if one attended a "lesser" college. You also ask if a parent would still pay if it didn't lead to better opportunities....my answer, as a parent of two college kids, is yes, I would pay just for the educational experience itself. It is priceless. An educated mind is worth having. The years at school have been growth opportunities and they have been having great experiences. Second, I would pay the SAME for MIT as I would be willing to pay for "no name" school if my child wanted to attend "no name school."</p>