I think our experiences vary according to the particular colleges and also the problems that caused the withdrawal in the first place. It really helps to be registered with disabilties office and the range of issues that qualifies is sometimes a surprise after the fact.
Bopper I like this:
It is more important to have good physical and mental health rather than attending college in a linear fashion.
Even if formal withdrawals don’t work out, I think that taking a leave of absence will help the future in many ways Other colleges (and even employers) will see that the student took the situation seriously enough to leave, took action to improve, and then an eventual return to classes with success will be seen as a “turnaround” and meet with approval (and admission).
And it avoids further payments- and debt! Paying while a kid is failing is really not good. Kids with debt who do not finish and have failure on their transcripts can paint themselves, and their families, in a corner.
Leaving school may mean a bumpy patch. Stay positive in your relationship with your daughter as much as possible and have faith that it can work out!!