what exactly does "hooking up" mean...

<p>thanks for the insight…she used to text back all the time, but id always be asking questins and shed be responding…butt hen she stopped …i texted her only twice where she didnt respond.</p>

<p>Down here, hooking up is such a vague term. It can involve just kissing from sex and anything in between. It’s like the yadda yadda, something you just say to not make anything definitive so you don’t sound like you put out or to sound like you just hit third base. At least, that’s how it is here… A girl friend of mine would say “Yeah, we sorta hooked up last night, but nothing too far.” Or another friend would say, “Ohhh, yeah, we hooked up last night, it was awesome.” No one really questions… they just either hi-five it or give a reassuring pat… You should deff ask her which one it was though!</p>

<p>Hooking up means casual sex… always.</p>

<p>I personally wouldnt worry about the girl, its a freaking tennis camp; there will be tons of really hot girls around begging for it! </p>

<p>Find someone else at the camp to make sure you have a slampiece and it will show the original girl that other girls find you attractive, then you can hook up with her and hopefully still keep the slampiece on the side.</p>

<p>LOL, it must be wonderful to be so naive. Dude, Hooking Up generally means sex. Like you meet some girl at a party and you two just go and have sex. Or you have a friend with benefits and you two get together for sex. In some cases it could also just mean getting together to fool around a little, like making out, but mostly it means sex.</p>

<p>Not trying to be a jerk or anything, I just wanna tell you how it is because its never good to waste time dwelling on one girl. If she didn’t text you back that day or the next day she’s probably not interested.</p>

<p>I thought hooking up almost always meant not dating, just kind of a <em>thing</em>, and basically always meant more than making out and less than sex if you get my drift.</p>

<p>Hooking up is a term made up so that guys can pretend they got further than they did and girls can pretend they didn’t go as far.</p>

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<p>DreamingBig…no. If she’s not texting you back, she obviously isn’t into you. It hurts, believe me, I’ve been in the same situation before, but it’s the truth you gotta live with. I’ve even been hooking up with a girl who didn’t want anything like a relationship, and that kinda hurt…but I don’t complain if that happens much haha. And you gotta leave her alone, don’t make it awkward, still talk to her but don’t be desperate and if she doesn’t answer you don’t freak out, just stop texting her. And believe me bro, idk what some girls are thinking, but they go for complete a**holes sometimes, it’s whatever just let it be</p>

<p>and hooking up can mean anything from making out to sex. I’ve gotten to the stage in life where making out no longer “counts” haha, and at my high school where we have these raging dances (not even lying) making out and feeling up doesn’t even count…that’s how nuts the dances are</p>