It’s currently my summer before senior year. There is a girl I met during my junior year and became friends with. I want to hang out with her during the summer, but I don’t want it to seem like a date because her mother said she is not allowed to start dating yet. I could try to invite other friends to come along, but most of my friends are currently vacationing or have internships so group activities are hard to organize because often just one person is free at a time. What would be a good way to ask her to hang out without it seeming like a date? I could ask if she want to bring some of her friends. I could also just come right out and say “as friends”. Any ideas?
If any of your friends are available, I’d invite them. It’s good to have at least one person from your crowd when at a social gathering.
I think you’re overthinking the whole “asking her out as a friend” thing. Probably just say you’re looking to hang out with a group of friends, and were wondering if she’d be down to come and bring a couple of her friends, too. Keep it casual and make it clear that you want it to be a group endeavor. She’ll get the message.
Just don’t sweat it and don’t overthink it. It’s not a big deal. You’ve got this.
Don’t mention hanging out as “friends”. It’ll ruin your chances. Tell her you want to hang out somewhere. If she says no it’s her loss. Don’t over think it. There’s so many girls out there and so many chances to ask them out.
Is there any local fairs or anything around? Can you get a group and invite her and her friends?
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