<p>I met this girl a year ago at a club. She told me she wasn't from town and she was leaving the next day, so i took her number and we talked by phone and online for hours a day even when she went back to her city. Then we stopped all of a sudden because well we've both been busy. Now in this new semester she sends me a message that she just moved to my city and started classes in my school. I'm trying to get her to come have a drink with me so we can catch up on lost time but she refuses to respond. whats her deal?</p>
<p>maybe playing hard to get....what do u think?</p>
<p>She's using you to boost her ego.
I'd forget her, brah.
No piece of pussy is worth attention if she is going to act like a total loser to you.
I'm guessing by "we stopped", you really mean, "she stopped".
She's paying attention to you not because she's sexually interested in you but rather she is using you.
You have to teach this woman a lesson and cut things off with her entirely...you can't win with her. You showed enough of yourself to her and she has decided she is not attracted to you!!</p>
<p>Don't ask her to go for a drink. She might think you are trying to get her drunk and have sex with her. Instead just ask her to meet up somewhere. Just a thought.</p>
<p>Yeah maybe you are just misreading her.</p>
<p>To me, it sounds like you did/said something to turn her off. If she was using you, this isn't the way she would go about doing it. Women playing hard-to-get don't regularly communicate for hours a day and randomly stop all of a sudden. If she was playing hard to get, she would probably still give you little hints and do things to lead you on, while not making herself available as often - keeping your interest, while also making you want her more because she's not as easy to get. If she randomly cut off all contact with you entirely, you either did something to weird her out, or she is just extremely busy. Or even more likely, she met another guy and decided to ditch you.</p>
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she met another guy and decided to ditch you.
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it gave me chills lol</p>
<p>I second what molly said.</p>
<p>Maybe she doesn't drink.</p>
<p>Maybe her phone died?</p>
<p>the thing is I never gave her any reason to think I liked her in that way we made jokes on if that would ever happen. i take her as a really good friend. and yea she drinks..</p>