<p>how do I stay strong</p>
<p>Oh I’ve dealt with this</p>
<p>Honestly don’t give them the satisfaction of knowing they got to you. Remember you’re there to learn, not make buddies with your teacher. If they hate you, their loss- just remember what matters to you. For me, my grade mattered more, so I did everything I could to ensure I got an A when my teacher thought I couldn’t. I ignored their comments and lack of enthusiasm towards me</p>
<p>Like me, tell your teacher to go **** themselves. That’ll earn respect and solidify your street rep. If you want be overlooked you can let teachers control you, but if you want respect control your teachers</p>
<p>thanks guys! at the end of the last school year, i ended up getting a B in a class, and it was 89.4% and yah i guess i knwo that’s my fault but this teacher’s class is unnecessarily difficult
two years ago she was also my teacher (we only have one french teacher)
and i got B both semesters like everyone else (no one got an A)
and then last year first semester i just pushed a little and got an A
then second semester (end of the year just now), i got a B and i was angry cuz i finally started caring about grades last year and so i sent her an email to ask her to bump up my grade</p>
<p>and then she sent me an email back saying that i was rude and stuff though i wasn’t
i just explained to her that her class is rather difficult and that for my effort i thought i deserved an A and she wrote me a really really long email and it was really angry and it made me feel really bad
she also said i broke her contract, because at the beginning of the year she made us sign a thing saying that we understand that she won’t negotiate grades
but then i found out at the end of the year that she bumped up one of my friends grades, so i thought i should at least try and ask too
but it just ended up hurting me
i did send her an apology email apologizing for my “rudeness”</p>
<p>but she’ll still be my french teacher next year and i’m afraid to see her when school starts as we left it on kind of a bitter note </p>
<p>i’m just really nervous to see her when school starts</p>
<p>When you see her, act like nothing happened and greet her with a huge smile. Some teachers just suck like that, and there’s really nothing you can do about it. Try to be an angel though, maybe if she’s trying to find faults in you but can’t find any, it will irk her even more. It’ll be your secret weapon- your form of revenge.
… Not saying that you should trying to be getting revenge on your teachers…</p>
<p>So personally, whenever a teacher hates me it makes me try harder in their class. Then, when I do get good grades on assignments and tests, I almost feel like I’m the one beating them(; good luck!</p>
<p>Just make him/her as happy as you can…</p>
<p>Lol, plenty of teachers hate me. They can’t do anything to me outright, so I just try my best to excel in their classes and shoot them death glares when they aren’t looking.</p>
<p>nvm… lol</p>
<p>I was able to forget about the incident throughout the middle of summer but now that school is coming again it’s been bothering me and affecting my sleep again. (I am easily bothered)
I feel guilty for sending the email but at the same time I feel angry because I shouldn’t have to feel that way and I really did nothing wrong. The teacher said she was hurt by my email and that I’m disrespectful in class anyways and don’t deserve an A and that she thinks I consider her class a place to explain math to other students (which I don’t; I do like the French language)</p>
<p>What mostly bothers me is not me getting a B (though the unnecessary difficult of the class does bother me), but her response to me asking for an A. It was like I did something really terrible. It makes me all wound up and angry inside and I really just want it to stop. </p>
<p>I guess this kind of sounds like a rant but I really didn’t exaggerate anything and I did state everything from a pretty neutral view. Though my posts have been long, I would really appreciate it if a few people read them through and have me some feed back and make me feel better.</p>
<p>I’ve had plenty of teachers be annoyed with me, but only one has hated me (hopefully). I pretty much just ignored her. Personally, I would just do whatever I could to get an A in that class but nothing more. I wouldn’t give her the time of day. But that’s just me being bitter. I guess you can keep trying to make things better with her and just act normal when you talk to her. It’s not the end of the world if a teacher hates you, this stuff happens all the time. It only becomes a problem when she starts treating you badly and gives you bad grades when you KNOW for a FACT that you should have gotten a better grade. In that case, talk to her one to one and if she still acts like a biiiiiotch, talk to your counselor.</p>