Family of 5 with income bracket 100-120k and 2 in college can target merit, but would be eligible for a lot of aid from meet-need colleges.
Seconding Fordham & Northeastern. You could probably get merit aid at F, N meets need.
You might get merit aid at these schools, since your scores are above average:
-American University
-Baylor University
-Catholic University of America (Someone on CC got a $21,000 scholarship with a 2100)
-Drake University
-Loyola Marymount University
-Seattle University
^CAU doesn’t meet need and in fact has lousy aid, but most importantly is a pontifical school (it is for Catholics what Yeshiva is for Jewish students), under the direction of the Holy See. It’s totally different from Seattle U or Loyola Marymount in that respect.
Drake has a “website application” or is on commonapp, and it’s free to apply, so why not apply?