<p>thumper–I said in an earlier post that I really think, for the most part, the problem is with the administration.</p>
<p>And, it was my KIDS who couldn’t stand the teachers. In my house, we always stand with the teachers, regardless of whether we agree with them or not. We never discuss our feelings of a teachers failing with the children and we always back the teacher.</p>
<p>Since my oldest is now in college, we did discuss a few elementary teachers with her this summer, and told her how we’d felt at the time. But she never knew then. “If the teacher says you have to do that, then that’s the rule. End of story.”</p>
<p>But…you cannot complain to the school to get an abusive or mediocre teacher removed if your child is still in that classroom, or if you have another kids coming up through the same system. The punishment will be too insidious for the kids. </p>
<p>At one point, we did have to hire an attorney to get one of my children removed from a classroom with a teacher. Fortunately, all we had to do was to have the attorney call up to set up a meeting. Once that happened, she was removed. Before that, we were told that “Yes, the teacher made a mistake” (I won’t go into it, but believe me, it was a lawsuit if we were lawsuit people), “but we don’t remove kids from classes here.” End of story. </p>
<p>It’s not cut and dried, and it should not be so impossible. We spent months on it. SHE spent months on it. Didn’t learn a darn thing.</p>
<p>edit: but not everyone can afford an attorney, and so not everyone can get results. You should not have to hire a lawyer to get your child into a suitable set of circumstances, let alone to get them away from someone who is actually damaging to them.</p>