I’m going to William and Mary this fall. More than anything, I want to be excited about my choice, full of school spirit, happy, etc. But for some reason I feel unsettled and even a little depressed. This doesn’t make sense: I’ve loved William and Mary for years, and I’ve always known I’d end up here, because it’s pretty much a perfect fit. The size, academics, and atmosphere are what I’ve always wanted in a college, and besides that, I won’t have any debt when I graduate.
What I’m feeling isn’t quite buyer’s remorse: I don’t regret choosing W&M or wish that I had picked another school from my options. William and Mary was the best choice! Instead, I keep thinking things that I have no control over, like that I should have done more planning in the application process so that I might’ve applied to different, better-matched schools. (I didn’t really have strong feelings about 2 or 3 of the 8 schools I applied to, and these past few months I’ve had time to reflect and now wish I had applied to some other schools that I just brushed off.) But this just makes me angry at myself, because I know that those schools would’ve been reaches anyways, and there’s no point to thinking such things. I’ve even thought about transferring to one of those schools, and I haven’t even started freshman year yet!! What’s wrong with me?!? I’m trying to reassure myself that I’ll have a great time at W&M, but nothing’s working. What happened to the love for my dream school?
It’s not as if I think I deserve to go to a “better” school; I didn’t get into the higher-tier schools that I applied to, and honestly, I highly doubt that applying to more/different schools would’ve produced a different result. William and Mary is a wonderful school and a great fit for me. My parents and friends agree, and I’ve always felt that way. It’s just that I suddenly have this gloomy and pessimistic attitude hanging over me that I want to get rid of.
I want to be excited for college like all my friends are; I want to be all “Go Tribe!” and have no regrets. I need advice on how to get hyped for W&M and how to get over all my qualms. If anyone has any tips on how I can just start looking forward to college instead of dwelling on the past or negative things, I would be really thankful.