<p>I really don't like those girls who are always looking for a boyfriend, but I am really frustrated. I have a lot of guy friends and am somewhat popular, but I've never had a boyfriend. I don't want to come off as arrogant either, but I think that I'm smart and funny and not horrible looking. My best friend has 3-4 guys calling her every weekend, while my phone remains silent. I've never really had a problem with it and it's not like I've never been on a date...but I'm a senior in high school, 8 months from college, and I'm starting to realize that I'm going to go through high school without ever having a boyfriend and it kind of sucks. I guess I can only hope that college will be better, but this really isn't doing much for my confidence :(</p>
<p>Don't get a bf in college...atleast not until your junior year.</p>
<p>And maybe you should start going after guys...you sound confident enough</p>
<p>Don't rush it. Wait a while; it's better to wait a long time and have a good bf than to rush into something and be disappointed after.</p>
<p>Ask your best friend!</p>
<p>Hey, I'm in the same boat. Not really feeling the pressure yet, though.</p>
<p>I have become a slight misanthrope and thus I'm quite pessimistic about relationships.
I agree with everyone who said don't rush it. You're only in high school. You still have a lot more chances, and surely as you progress through the years, your group of potential significant others will become more filtered. That is, right now I bet a lot more guys around you are of less quality than they will be when you're in college.
Single and proud owns.</p>
<p>yeah me too. but i m a sophomore- i dont hav many offers, but everyone seems to like me. My problem is i rush into things to fast and analyze vrything any guy ever says to me that sounds like flirting, and then i get my hopes up and...get crushed. My advice go with the flow, but watch 4 any signals, and if that doesnt work just ask guys out.</p>
<p>When you're looking for a boyfriend you won't find one. Its like looking at water boil or whatever that saying is.
Try to improve your relationships with guys and have fun, and be yourself. I wish I could help more, but seriously, if you put yourself out there and are yourself, then there must be at least one guy interested in you!
Good luck!</p>
<p>Are you serious?</p>
<p>I don't have a boyfriend either because I don't want one and I rather have more guy friends. Are you just worry that you won't have someone to go to the prom with or something that is why you want a boyfriend that bad? Enjoy being single while you still can! Maybe the reason why guys don't call you is maybe because the way you act in front of them or that you don't talk to them much. I really don't know you that well in order to judge why the guys don't want to call you. Don't worry too much about it! Wait til college to date. :P Goodluck finding a boyfriend!</p>
<p>I can solve your problem in a matter of seconds..
but seriously, I don't think you should want a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. When the time comes, and you find a boy who you like and who also likes you for who you are, then by all means go out with him!</p>
<p>I don't mean that I want boyfriend. I hateeee those girls who fall in love with anything that walks.This weekend my friend got calls from 4 different guys and I was just thinking about how I hardly get called and how I've never had a serious boyfriend...it's just not what I thought high school would be like for me. I also worried about going to college and being really naive about the whole boyfriend thing.</p>
<p>Why don't you put some effort in and call them?</p>
<p>Being naive about relationships. I think that's a valid concern, but you're eventually going to learn anyway, just that it might be in college. Can't be that bad (hopefully). I mean, a lot of college freshmen go in without any experience, I'm sure.</p>
<p>the bluemuffin....there isn't anyone I really want to call. I mean, I have a lot of guy friends, but I can't see myself dating any of them.</p>
<p>So talk to people that you will. Open up :)</p>
<p>maybe you're intimidating?</p>
<p>or maybe they see you as one of the guys?</p>
<p>surfette---maybe your guy friends know you dont feel that way about them...so they dont want to ask......</p>
<p>So maybe you don't like any of the boys around you? That sounds like a pretty reasonable explanation. Join some clubs or teams that compete. Then you'll meet boys from other schools.</p>
<p>That doesn't matter... it depends on your school. Most of the girls at my school are either taken, or used up already (sluts). You'll definitely have your chance in college...</p>
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<p>Lol .</p>