<p>I think basically everyone who's never had a boyfriend in high school will have their chance in college, at least if you let yourself. I don't think people in high school are mature enough to have a real, committed relationship. Most people I know of either had partners who cheated, were together for less than 6 months or both. In my opinion, it's just not worth it.</p>
<p>^ I concur.</p>
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<p>..chauvinist.</p>
<p>Are a lot of your guy friends shy and nerdy?</p>
<p>Maybe that's why....</p>
<p>I wish I knew some shy and nerdy guys. Maybe then I'd actually find a boy I liked enough to date (and maybe even one who liked me back).</p>
<p>oh man. im going thru high school also w/o any relationships. jr year... almost over</p>
<p>"jr year... almost over"</p>
<p>well, you think it's almost over, but then senior year hits you in the face with that tantalizing carrot-in-the-face thing. still, not as bad as junior year, though.</p>
<p>I think you should be happy with what you have (guy friends). If something is not meant to be, then dwelling on it doesn't help either. You can take action or not take action, i guess there is no way to tell what the future will bring. Expect the unexpected, lol i don't know if that really fits but whatev. About the experience thing, it's human nature. There's a first for everything and if you are trying to get the experience to impress college boys, obviously you are not doing it for youself. Maybe you should wait for someone you are really interested in to take action, but you shouldn't just want a boyfriend because it's the norm in highschool or whatever. :)</p>
<p>or maybe with the orginal Op it can be your just plain ugly also.</p>
<p>the end of junior year can still mean relationships. I ended up in one that kind of...traces of it began at the end of junior year? I don't know, it developed over the summer, and since he goes to college nearby it was able to continue into senior year.</p>
<p>I'm a misogynist. </p>
<p>Either that or a gynophile. I forget.</p>
<p>I am reminded of a song from Avenue Q -</p>
<p>KATE MONSTER
Your problems aren't so bad!
I'm kinda pretty
And pretty damn smart.</p>
<p>BRIAN
You are.</p>
<p>KATE MONSTER
Thanks!
I like romantic things
Like music and art.
And as you know
I have a gigantic heart
So why don't I have
A boyfriend?
(something that rhymes with puck)
It sucks to be me!</p>
<p>haha. that can be my theme song.</p>
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lol reminds me of my guy friends...Not shy, but definately nerdy!</p>
<p>They started playing....</p>
<p>Magic cards. seriously. (1 guy started it and now they all play it... sigh)</p>
<p>I was like... are you serious? (we are freshman in college) My other girl friend thought it was pretty bad too (she needed a date for a formal and when her other friend asked her "why not take one of your guy friends?" she said "they are playing magic cards. No." "are you serious?? OMG!")</p>
<p>And then when i got <em>ed off at them for playing magic all the time one of them called me a jerk. *</em>?</p>
<p>oh dear.
magic cards are the worst. </p>
<p>actually most of my guy friends are very outgoing. i think the problem is i'm not interested in them physically, or they are beautiful and stupid. sighhh.</p>
<p>what's magic cards?</p>
<p>hahaha...what are magic cards.</p>
<p>when i found out some people i knew played them, i kinda wanted to laugh really hard, but i reined it in because i'm one of those people who visits the renaissance festival every year IN COSTUME.</p>
<p>What are magic cards? really?</p>
<p>Its kind of like pokemon cards/yu gi oh cards... pretty dorky. It was created before those though i think.</p>
<p>It explains why i don't have a bf either though because all my guy friends are dorky. I need to meet some people who are dateable... Which is pretty sad because our group consists of 6 guys and 2 girls.. and 6 guys are all totally dorky. tsk.</p>
<p>See, I'm the girl who would go for those guys with the magic cards, because I'm a nerd too, just in other aspects. The reason I don't have a boyfriend is because there aren't many guys like that at my school - they're all silly preps or SUPER nerds with rolling backpacks and zero social skills.</p>
<p>loloolololololololol i have straight a's, have good social skills, pretty good looking,dress good, hahah i'm soo far from a nerd,thank god.</p>