Why Don't I Have A Boyfriend?

<p>you jus keep telling urself that... and stepping up onto ur pedestal...</p>

<p>Here's some advice: Don't get into relationships. I've learned now that high school dating really sucks and girls suck (well for now I hope).</p>

<p>Here are my distrastrous relationships IN ORDER:</p>

<ol>
<li><p>First girl ended in heartbreak. I had a long relationship with her and what does she do? She comes at you unexpected and shatters your heart. First love. First heartbreak. You know how it is. I probably had this sickening feeling in my stomach for at least a week. Lost like 5 pounds. (I was 13 I think)</p></li>
<li><p>I lost my virginity to a girl who cheated on me with an ex of hers.</p></li>
<li><p>Next relationship, guess what happens? This girl cheated on me with this at-least-20-yo employee from McDonalds. And she's 16.</p></li>
</ol>

<p>So right now I'm just pretty much done and apathetic. I'll go to proms and balls with dates but beyond that, no.</p>

<p>My 2 cents. I hope you take it seriously. </p>

<p>azsxdc</p>

<p>I wonder if she has a boyfriend now :]</p>

<p>Haha, surfette hasn’t logged in since 2008.</p>

<p>I have an eyelash in my eye!!! ow.</p>

<p>OP, like everyone else said…its honestly better to wait for the right guy to come along than to rush into something just because you want to say you have a boyfriend and then regret it later. an awesome guy will come along when the time is right. waiting it out for him makes it all the more special.</p>

<p>Haha I know it’s like…years after the first post, but I just HAD to say something, since I’m in the exact same position right now.
I used to want a boyfriend in high school, cuz all of my friends have one, and it seems like every girl (even the really mean ones) has at least SOME guys who are into them. I’m not one of those girls, but eh…I’ve learned to accept it.
As everyone else has said, I’m just gonna wait until college, and even if I don’t have a ton of boyfriends in college…I’m fine with that. Life goes on after college, too. Patience is a virtue, as some great person said.
=D</p>

<p>You see, I feel that if Yu-gi-Oh stayed on track and not shifted to that new motorcycle version, it would be so popular right now. Yu-gi-Oh was the beginning of something new and the inspiration for other failed card games to be made.</p>

<p>I mean, the three egyptian god cards, blue-eyes white dragon, blue-eyes ultimate dragon, dark magician… these were the classics, not those new knock offs.</p>

<p>Kinda same position–I used to really want a bf, was talking to a few guys, and decided it just wasn’t worth the time for any of them. The thing about high school is you don’t usually pick where you go–you’re kinda stuck with these people. In college, you pick where you go and to be there, so there will probably be more people like you. And just hooking up with guys is not the way to go–it just makes you more upset.</p>

<p>hahaha omg sameeee :smiley:
I always thought about having a bf and was always really jealous of others
but now I’m just sick of everyone at my school haha
my standards are too high in a way, but I feel like college will have a more diverse population of guys as opposed to the stick skinny nerds at my school… :/</p>

<p>Well I’m kind of in the same boat as you, except I’m a guy. I’m a senior and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I feel a lot of pressure to get one from my peers, however. I’m on the hockey team at school and pretty much all of the guys have girlfriends but me. I get made fun of a lot because I’ve never had a girlfriend. They say that I’m a loser and a weirdo and crap for never having a girlfriend. </p>

<p>I wouldn’t say that I’m the best looking guy around, but I am very athletic, pretty smart, nice and funny. I just haven’t found anyone that I really want to be with yet. Most of the girls at my school just fall for the jerks who treat them like crap. When it happens, it happens, I’m just going with the flow for now.</p>

<p>Spartan you going to have an easy time at some point. Most colleges have more girls than guys.</p>

<p>^^ And speaking as a girl, being athletic def HELPS in the dating department.</p>

<p>I’m a guy, and I wish I could have a girlfriend. However, the one thing that prevents me from getting one, is my height. Being only 5’7, most girls are taller than me. Unfortunately, these days girls shorter than 5’4 still prefer guys who are 5’ 10 and above. This problem combined with my below average looks, prevent me from getting a girlfriend. I hope in the future girls will lower their standards. Maybe then I can finally get a chance to have a girlfriend.</p>

<p>Never rush what takes a life time to make. A relationship does not happen overnight, it does not happen by chance, it does not have road signs written all over it. It comes when you least expect it and if it is meant to be you will know.
Mark Landrie</p>

<p>A relationship may not occur overnight but damn, I do get sick of seeing everyone w/ someone… :(</p>

<p>At least most of the people on here have the potential to find mates. But, I don’t have that potential.</p>

<p>Don’t feel bad. I really don’t either.</p>

<p>I used to wonder the same question but I was not worried. Now that I have a boyfriend…I wish I was free and single.</p>

<p>A guy will come when you’re not looking for him. Trust! Focus on the important things in school like your grades and family. Focus on things that will always stay. Even if guys are always calling your best friend, the guys probably aren’t interested in a serious, real relationship. Time will come, also if you’re in your senior year you will be in college before you know it!</p>

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