<p>I’m in the same boat. I guess what I dont understand is why I dont get asked out that often and why when I do get asked out… it’s by the really nerdy, anti-social guys? I dont mean to be arrogant or anything but I’m really well rounded and fairly attractive… whattheheck? </p>
<p>@rd2012, why dont you have potential to find a mate?</p>
<p>all you girls sounds like girls I know. remember, us guys need some kind of flirting back before we can gulp down our fear and ask you out. we’re always waiting for a chance, just us some - smile at us when we walk into a room, give us a hug randomly, or just talk to us in the hallways. </p>
<p>Some guys still don’t get the hint ^^^ oh well that’s why I talk to older guys but I get along with them anyways…and some of us girls are very shy</p>