<p>When I grew up, I was a B student, with some A's and maybe a C here or there. My husband was the same way. Our oldest son who is a senior in high school has been a straight A student ever since elementary school....no b's since the third grade. He literally works his butt off. Our youngest son who is in sixth grade is more like my husband and myself when we were in school. I love the fact our oldest son is such a great student. But, I am wondering lately, what good does it do some students to work their tails off for all straight A's sometimes? So far, he has been offered very little merit money from colleges and now turned down by a few merit scholarships. I am angry inside for watching that child work sooooooooooooooooooooo hard all thru school. What if he gets no merit money? Then, what difference does it really make for a child to push himself soo hard or to just get the B's. </p>
<p>I know I am sounding negative, but I can't stand the thought of him not getting much with how hard he has worked. I am just venting on here as I sure as heck will not vent to him about his as I am SUPER, DUPER PROUD OF HIM and ALWAYS WILL BE. I just hate seeing people work so hard for such a little outcome. This entire senior year, has been nerve wracking for him to keep those A;s up so that he can be validictorian. But, he gets nothing for that from his school.. Anyway, sorry folks...I just love my children soo much and am dreading if he doesn't get money just more for his sake than ours.</p>